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| why some couples avoid couples who have many validations into their profile |
I would like to ask “why some couples avoid couples who have many validations into their profile”? is this a lack of self confidence? is it the state of self-assuredness and trust in oneself and one’s abilities and strengths, Or furthermore, is it all about feeling comfortable in different situations, even if their outcome is unknown. or they just afraid of more experienced or skilled couples?
Is it that maybe so-called validated couples are widely known thoroughly in swinger community and anxious to have any physical involvement being not discreet ?
Well those are some topics that need to discuss in details !
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| by SEXYSUZY1 on February 29, 2012 |
Is country mentality plays his role?
or maybe
It’s that newbies cpls, prefer likewise (new into this cpls) ? |
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| by MOJO911 on February 28, 2012 |
We don't like to advertise who we play with. We believe it is nobody's business.
Sort of like facebook, ooh look at me how many friends I have..... |
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| by DISCREETGUY on March 29, 2011 |
I totally agree with NJBlonde.
Validations are used to confirm to other people they've met and spent time with you, and are willing to tell others you are for real, genuine, nice, fun, etc. Sex or no sex. There's no reason to be intimidated if a couple or single has a lot of validations. It means a lot of people like them/him/her. You should want to meet a couple or person that is liked by so many.
All of that being said, it would be hard not to agree with NJBlonde. Dayum! Just sayin'.
~DG
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| by COUPLE21003 on March 24, 2011 |
the reason for not responding to cpls with more validations could be
1. cpls who are new to swinging feel shy of experienced cpls.They feel underconfident in front of others and fear they might not perform so good in presence of experienced cpls so wont live upto their expectations.
2.cpls who might be too much into it are more vulnerable to diseases.
3.they might be professionals
But i would say couples with more validations are defiantely gn learn lotood and can make new cpls comfortable in their company and we can learn lot of new things in this lifestyle.
So guys dnt feel shy carry on without fear!!best of luck
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| by EROTICMOTION4U on March 23, 2011 |
| Yabba ... you might have just come up with the SDC bumper sticker! lol |
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| by SWINGERSNHS on March 20, 2011 |
| To us, couples with a LOT of validations and/or 100's of friends strike us as "hard core" swingers. We're not into that so much. We're one of the "weird" couples that actually likes to get to know another couple on an intellectual level just as much as we like to get freaky with them. We like quality over quantity. That being said, we're not afraid to contact a couple just because they have more validations that we do. If they're attractive and seem intelligent from what they've written in their profile, then it's game on for us! |
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| by YABBADABBADO on March 19, 2011 |
We pretty much feel everyone on this site seems to hover just one validation shy of the perfect number. |
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| by EUROMEXCOUPLE on March 16, 2011 |
Considering how many couples that we have not met have asked us to validate them, validations are totally irrelevant. Too many usually means hard core, and we are not into that. At this point we do not even look at validations. The only reason to look at "friends" is to find potential new friends that do not show up on a search.
We really prefer the rating that is used on another site.
All that matters, is meeting in person at a location that allows you to move on and still have a great evening even if the "date" was not what you expected. |
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| by CPL2SWEET on March 14, 2011 |
| We totaly Agree with u , this is really weird ! |
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