I posted this in the wrong place methinks, so am going to post it here in hopes of some good lively opinion!

We thought we drop a quick post here to poll you sexy swingers on something. My wife and I have been on the fringes of the lifestyle for 5+ years. Most dabbling until really the last 3 years when we dove in the deep end for awhile. We've had amazing experiences and are always up for keeping it fresh, new and exciting.

Now the question...House Party? Or The Club?  We enjoy Trapeze and what it has to offer, but we find it hard to "connect" with a couple out front before it's time to go in the back and see what chemistry you can drum up. Its definitely more throw yourself in the dog pile and wallow around with the other sets of bucking hips! Now don't get me wrong, there's X amount of that which I can "get off on." However...like I said, we like to keep it fresh.

Now, we've only done a couple house parties...one with some newbie friends that we had to vacate pretty quickly, and the other was much more fun. I think we liked the intimate setting and the ability to get to know someone a little before you end up mattress dancing with this peron.

So we are curious your preferences: A) Club   B) House Party
And why?

As we're very social, the wife & I are considering relocating locally in Fort Lauderdale to a House that we can logistically accommodate once or twice monthly parties for upscale, discreet lifestylers. Anonymous can be fun, but sometimes Friends who Fuck is the best ride. Just ask my wife.

So feedback people? Which do you prefer and curious who may be interested in a new, upscale lifestyle house party if feedback is positive???

D & B