I would like to ask “why some couples avoid couples who have many validations into their profile”? is this a lack of self confidence? is it the state of self-assuredness and trust in oneself and one’s abilities and strengths, Or furthermore, is it all about feeling comfortable in different situations, even if their outcome is unknown. or they just afraid of more experienced or skilled couples?

Is it that maybe so-called validated couples are widely known thoroughly  in swinger community and anxious to have any physical involvement being not discreet ?

Well those are some topics that need to discuss in details !

 

Following a conversation with several "friend" couples about swingers clubs, it became obvious that we all liked different things from those clubs. So in light of my desire to know more, my question to other couples in the lifestyle is this....what are those things that will make or break your desire to socialize swingers clubs? What amenities are a must for you? What sort of things do you expect a club to provide? What services should be the norm?