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Reviews 125

Club Details

Club Size
6000 square feet
Max. Occupancy 250 people
Playroom Occupancy 50 people
Alcohol Sold BYOB
Food Available
On premise sex allowed Yes
Dance Floor Yes
Fetish Room/Area No
Outside Area Yes
Massage Area No
Sauna No
Jacuzzi Yes
Swimming Pool No
Smoking Allowed
in smoking area only
Private Rooms No
Private Locker Yes

Operating Time and Entrance fees:

  Open-Close Couples Single Females Single Males
Monday Closed
Tuesday Closed
Wednesday Closed
Thursday Closed
Friday 8pm-4am Yes Yes Limited
Saturday 8pm-4am Yes Yes Sponsored Only
Sunday Closed

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The 13th Floor Description

The 13th floor is Dallas' most exciting on-premise swinger's group. We are just minutes from downtown Dallas. Come visit us and see the exciting new look at The 13th Floor.

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Title: Awesome place, highly recommend! Date:8/6/2012 11:42:23 PM  
  My partner and I went to the 13th floor this past Saturday night, August 4th. This was our first time to ever visit any establishment like this one. The reservation process was easy. I called and talked to Len and he gave us all the information we needed, including the address and the amount of the donation. We arrived around 10pm, and the place was already packed. There were at least 100 people already there when we arrived. We signed in and went on our orientation and tour. The orientation was very informative and immediately made us feel comfortable. One funny comment from the orientation was "You can have sex anywhere in the house, except on the food".

We got to see each room on the tour. The Bordello Room is the "private" room in which people can't watch you. However, there are about 8 beds in this room, so if there are people on those beds, they could see you. The beds have see through curtains hanging around them. The Paris Room has five beds that have solid dividers between them, but the ends of the bed are completely visible, as there is only a sheer curtain. We learned that if the curtain is open, the people on the bed are open to people joining. If the curtain is closed, they don't want anyone to join. This room however is completely okay to stand or sit and watch everyone in it. There's even a bench that you can sit on to watch others. Then there's the mirror room. This is filled with mattress that aren't separated by anything. This room is wide open and meant for larger group activities in my eyes. There's also a bench that you can sit down and watch others play. The food was quite food. There was a veggie tray, meat to make tacos, and lots of homemade desserts to choose from. The DJ played great music, stuff that was very easy to dance to. Never had to wait in line at the bar, and Greg the bartender was very nice and quick to serve us. We hung out on the dance floor for a while, then went to the Paris room to see if there was any action going on. Sure enough there were two girls and a guy playing. When we walked in, one girl was sitting on the other's face while the guy was going down on the other girl. They played for 20 minutes or so, doing all sorts of fun activities to watch. There were at least ten people standing around watching. It was pretty hot.

When we returned to the dance floor, people's clothes had started to disappear. Several girls were topless, and guys for that matter. We went to the Bordello Room to play around 1pm, but there were a lot of people in line. Unfortunately, a few people walked right past the line and took a bed. There wasn't really anything we could do about it as we didn't want to cause a scene.

If you're wondering what to wear, we went on a night that there was a Black Light / Glow in the Dark party going on. I'm not sure if this affects the dress, but I was shocked with how sexy everyone was dressed. The majority of the girls barely had their breasts covered up, and I saw at least 10 different girls that had see through shirts with no bras on. I was skeptical with how the crowd would be appearance wise, but when we arrived, I was SHOCKED with how many good looking and young people there were. The majority of the people there were HWP and good looking. There were at least 30 people in the 25-35 age range. I'm being completely honest when I say the majority of the people there were very sexy, young and old. It was awesome!

All of the people we met were very friendly to us and very informative. I highly recommend going to the 13th Floor. I've never been anywhere else, and I don't plan on going anywhere other than here. We didn't play at all, but who knows what the future will hold.

  Rating: 10


Title: Expected better customer service Date:8/5/2012 9:47:10 PM  
  Made reservations early. Later that day a girl friend of ours wants to go also. We r thinking bad ass...two girls one guy its a party! Calling the club at 10:11 pm to grab directions, and to inform them of our plus one guest. The gentleman provided us with additional price, directions, and made vary clear we needed to be there before 12 pm. After driving 43 miles from McKinney. Showing up at 11:22 pm the club manager refused to let our girl friend in since she admitted it was her first time. She "the manager" was rude about it and refused to even talk to us any longer. Even though our girl friend is an sdc member since 2006. So we drove 43 miles back home and had our own party.. At least we saved our 100 bucks. From our past experience the club was great at least there will be a rating.
  Rating: 5


Title: Polished Date:6/12/2012 10:17:21 AM  
  My wife and I spent many years with the 13th Floor and during that time, it was the only lifestyle establishment we ever visited with the exception of the Jet Set (which wasn’t anywhere near the 13th Floor’s level). Over the years, we became very involved with the 13th Floor’s operation and enjoyed countless weekends of parties working with the staff and visiting with the guests. As such, it was impossible to write an objective review.

We decided to take much needed break to catch up on the other side of our lives, during which we would occasionally visit most of the other Dallas area clubs. We returned to the Floor after being away for about eight months and attended parties on Friday and Saturday nights. With a much needed break and with a broader perspective on lifestyle clubs, I believe I can objectively state the following:

The 13th Floor is without a doubt the best lifestyle club in Dallas. The crowds are diverse and friendly. The music is always fresh with very clear sound quality. The staff is approachable and considerate. Most importantly, cleanliness and the safety and privacy of guests are a top priority. None of this is by coincidence. The owner is very cognizant of what his guests want and takes pride in providing it every weekend. I should add that the addition of the Sybian is a great attraction and its pilot is a WWIII ace.

These statements are by no means meant to belittle the other Dallas area clubs. They all have their merits and we still visit them. It is our opinion however, that if you’re looking for a place to let your hair down in a secure environment among open-minded guests, whether you’re just dipping your toes into exploring the lifestyle or have been into it for years like us, the 13th Floor is the place to be. The only complaint I would lodge is smoking. The Floor is the only club in Dallas where smoking indoors is allowed, which is an attraction to some and a nuisance to others. The consistent crowds would indicate that the smoke is by no means enough to detract attendance.

Harley & Zeus

  Rating: 9


Title: I like it, but don't love it. Date:5/18/2012 1:09:16 PM  
  This place is niceish. Not the best looking crowd but we have fun there.
  Rating: 6


Title: OMG! Date:5/16/2012 5:07:01 PM  
  Came out on Saturday night and the place was hopping. Everyone was parting and having a great time. Lots of sexy people everywhere. We had a blast and cant wait till next weekend.
  Rating: 9


Title: Outstanding Date:5/7/2012 4:59:56 PM  
  We went out this past Saturday. The place is clean and beautiful, great people. Lots of sexy things to look at. Great buffet. Great DJ. We will be going again
  Rating: 9


Title: Outstanding Date:5/7/2012 10:26:39 AM  
  This club is amazing. Absoulty Amazing! We went out there Saturday night and had a blast. Great food, very sexy people, great atmosphere. I could go on and on.

To start, They always seem to be updating something there. Newest is the Front room/entry. Great look, relaxing, and non-smoking part of the house. Perfect place to mingle away from the dance floor later in the night.

The Dance floor was hopping, looks great. Amazing DJ, playing all the top songs. He also played all different types of music, so everyone had something to dance to. the bar staff were fast and friendly. There was never a long line. And its great that they hold my bottles. Makes it easy, so I dont have to keep track of them, worry about where to put it when we go to play, or deal with someone stealing it. I normally drink the premimum stuff and have seen it disappear at other places.

The Back patio had plenty of seating and great hot tubs. They were perfect tempture and clear when I was in them. Also the King size bed out there is great if you have and exhibitionist streak in you. Softer music then on the dance floor and plenty of fans to keep the tempture comfortable.

The kitchen and additional seating area, also non-smoking was comfortable. Great Buffet. Plenty of things to eat, snack on, and enjoy. Main dishes, vegie trays, and plenty of sweets. Also really enjoyed the "educational videos" Playing on the TV.

The Play rooms were perfect. There is no smoking in any of the play rooms. The Paris room is semi-private, with dividers and shear curtains. Lighting was just right, decor was perfect. Great room if you are alittle shy and the Bordelo room is full. The Bordelo room is amazing. Great beds, very private. It alows for a mutch more intmate setting. Its really set up for a more 1 on 1 scene. The Mirror room was sexy and fun. If you have never watched your self having sex in a mirror you really have to try it. Extremely sexy. Also it very open. Great if you really enjoy watching or if you want to play in a 4some or more-some. It is a definate must try.

From all the places I have been, this place is the best. Worth every but of the donation. Secure area, great people, amazing place to party. I really can't wait for next weekend so I can go there again!

  Rating: 10


Title: Hot Tubs Date:4/29/2012 11:42:40 AM  
  We went friday & saturday night. we were told saturday that they don't drain and clean the hot tubs after fridays party. if this is true, than after seeing what we saw friday night, we will NEVER get in the tubs again on saturday if that is their cleaning policy.
  Rating: 8


Title: A Difference Date:4/29/2012 11:39:53 AM  
  We went to the Floor for the first time in about a year. Love the new entry way and sitting room. We took first-timer friends and sat nearby while they had their orientation. The furnishings are great, but the orientation was a total downer. When we had ours, the guy was gorgeous, upbeat, and made us feel not only secure, but genuinely welcome. He checked in on us a few times throughout the evening to ensure we were having fun. Those days are apparently gone and have given way to what is clearly a business environment. The owner appears to have no help anymore and seems to be doing everything himself. One thing is hasn't changed. His wife is still unpleasant and cold to the guests. Others there told us that the fun host/tour guy and his chef wife were long gone. That was obvious when we tried to eat. No big deal really, but we had told our friends to skip the restaurant and expect a great meal. As once or twice a year visitors, it won't keep us away, but it was disappointing.

The club was clean and the crowd was upbeat. We still dislike having to stand in a long line in the middle of the crowded dance floor to get our OWN liquor. We will be back, but we do miss the old crew.

  Rating: 7


Title: not impressed Date:4/1/2012 4:48:25 PM  
  this was our first visit to a party house, we ended up having a good time not because of anything the house had to offer.
First of all there were alot of BIG women there and they were pushy when they needed to make thier way accross the room, but thats ok. the second was the idiot DJ, there was about 10 -15 min where he was playing some kind of techno shit where there was no one dancing, i mean everyone cleared the dance floor, he never even opend his eyes to notice that everyone had cleared the floor. he looked like he was stoned and didnt even know what he was playing. He also played a couple of group dance or sort of line dances for lack of a better term. that night there was a stripper contes that had a stage that took up quite alot of space on the dance floor. They were supposed to take it down after the contest but didnt which made the dance floor and walking area around the dance floor a nightmare.
also the was too much hiphop that was hard to dance to. that was really annoying, also my wife made the comment that some one becides the fat ass guy should have given us our "orientation". Lots of fat women, but maybe thats common there, like i said it was our first time

  Rating: 5


Title: AMAZING!! Date:2/6/2012 1:17:59 PM  
  Rating: 10


Title: another good night Date:1/10/2012 5:16:54 PM  
  my wife and i visited on friday night and had another great time. IT WAS TACO NIGHT lol and THE FOOD AS ALWAYS WAS GOOD it was a laid back night and as usual you could find what ever you were into. the owners make sure no matter what you are there for have a great time. try it out like we did, you will have a great time!! J&S
  Rating: 10


Title: THE PLACE TO BE Date:1/8/2012 2:32:44 PM  
  We have been going to The Floor for 2 years now and absolutely love it. We have tried other clubs in the area and San Antonio and nothing compares. Recently there has been a change in DJs(we miss you Lee) which is our ONLY complaint and ONLY reason we rate The Floor a 9. We believe that the music is the heartbeat of the atmosphere. We enjoy all types of music BUT hip hop seems to be the most popular to dance to amongst all ages. The new DJ played very little hip hop regardless of the numerous request therefore the energy/excitement level faded drastically. We understand he is new and that it takes time to grasp what moves the crowd and we look forward to the improvement with his musical selection.
T.O. and Ms. Kelz

  Rating: 9


Title: Great NYE Party Date:1/2/2012 5:14:15 PM  
  No doubt the best NYE party in the area. The best food in over 3 years with a huge, friendly and happy crowd. This place keeps getting better and better. The attitude and competance of the staff is better than ever. This is a great, safe location in a good part of town. The class of visitors is the best in town. Keep up the great work and and friendly attitudes. We hope to have many more visits like the last.
  Rating: 10


Title: dont like it here? Date:12/20/2011 3:52:26 PM  
  Honestly if you dont like the floor, do not come here. my wife and i have been coming here often and really do enjoy the people and the facilities and do not want to be bothered by people who come and then complain after they leave. go somewhere else. len and wendy always go out of there way to make sure everyone including us are having a great time, the food is good, the music is great and where else can you go and get it on where ever you desire even if it is on the dance floor while everyone looks on and enjoys. this is a private residence that they invite you into. its kinda like going somewhere you dont want to be ...WHY GO AND SPOIL IT FOR THE REST OF US!! Thank you len and wendy for allowing my wife and i to have the best time of our lives, we love coming to your club and being free to do and live any fantasy we wish. S.& J.
  Rating: 10


Title: 13th floor in dallas Date:12/19/2011 5:18:31 PM  
  my wife and I started going to the 13th floor in dallas. what a great club, we are not really into full on swapping or anything we like to watch and be watched and my wife loves the women this place and everything about it is warm and very welcoming to us. the owners and helpers have on many occassions come up to us and tell us how fun we are and how happy they are that we come in often. the music is a great mix and THE FOOD IS GREAT. it is clean and the people there are very nice and not pushy. when you go there you can find anything that you are into and nothing that you are not. if you say no people respect that. the owners are awesome and really made us feel right at home. we are still new to the scene and if we had gone to any of the other clubs in dallas first we probably would not have gone any further, im glad we came here first we plan on visiting alot more. you can do anything you want. if you want to be out in the open you can be, if you want privacy you can have that too. this place is the best in dallas and if you go anywhere else you are depriving yourself, i promise you.
  Rating: 10


Title: Concerns??? Date:12/19/2011 4:01:29 PM  
  I have read back the reviews over the last couple of months and overall the 13th Floor is top notch! I Have gotten to know most of the people that work and visit the floor and one thing is for certain, if you have a problem with anyone then that problem should be brought to the owners attention immediately!! A review board is not a gripe board and just by reading about it after the fact will not help change the issue if it is recurring then Len can't fix it on the spot which he has in the past, every time! Most problems can be fixed but not if the opportunity hasn't been presented. Be part of a solution not just complain anonymously!


  Rating: 10


Title: The food is fine. The environment is exemplary. Date:12/19/2011 1:36:34 PM  
  After attending The 13th Floor this past weekend I have to say I thought the food was fine. It’s not a 5 star upscale restaurant, and it’s not a Vegas Style buffet it’s a lifestyle club. They aren’t in the business of serving food to a crowd, and they don’t have the industrial set up to do so. But I think that the fare that is presented exceeds my expectations. What we’re really going for is the atmosphere and a good time. Both of which are provided in an environment that is clean and safe. Let’s try to remember that the other clubs in the Dallas area are simply open to the public and they will let anyone show up and take their money. The 13th Floor is the only place that I noticed that required a phone interview process before they would allow you to come to the establishment. In my book that speaks volumes about the integrity of the club and their desire to maintain a tight control of the environment.
  Rating: 9


Title: Don't like it then don't go Date:12/19/2011 1:22:55 PM  
  Th previous review sounds like someone that was asked to leave for not following the rules. We have attended this club for a long time. You can't please everyone but the majority of the guest will agree that this is the best swingers place in the area if not the whole state. if you are going for the food then maybe you don't know what swinging is about. The last 2 weeks the food has been excellent. Any time you change cooks there will be changes . These are not profesional cooks. They are average people just like you and me who try to help out in the running of this club. If the staff was rude, there was a damn good reason for it. There are other clubs in the area. If you don't like this one then go somewhere else. You will find this is by far the best,safest
and well run club in the area if not the whole state.If you have a complaint then talk to the owners. They don't bite(unless of course that turns you on).You don't have to hide behind a key board. It doesn't take a scientist to run a good club. Nothing in this great country of ours is perfect.If you don't like something then blame OBAMA. At least the majority of the people will agree with you.Since nothing is perfect I rate this place a 9.

  Rating: 9


Title: Staff Date:12/19/2011 10:41:53 AM  
  All these comments notwithstanding, we still like the 13th Floor. We rarely dined there, but we were always impressed with the consistency and presentation. It looked like they actually gave a darn. It's clearly not a priority anymore and we no longer even bother to look. We go there for erotic entertainment - not the food.

We don't find the staff to be rude. We find them to be aloof and indifferent. The one guy there who made people feel welcome, wanted and secure is M.I.A. Now, no one greets is at our table, tells us jokes and introduces us to new people. When we were new, we were totally nervous but were made to feel relaxed and welcome week in and week out by the same guy who remembered our names and took time to sit with us. New people these days are on their own and we see the same petrified look on their faces as we had on ours. There's no one there to loosen them up after those grueling introduction interviews they're subjected to. No one offers to flashlight our walk to our car in the dark. No one offers us an umbrella or to go get our car for us in the rain. No one goes out of their way to to hug my neck and shake my husband's hand and wish us well as we leave.

The club is pretty clean and we like the secluded location. We still go there and the owner still gets our money. He should be aware that we HAVE noticed the difference and as guests, we DO discuss it among ourselves because no one else there seems to care.

M and T

  Rating: 6


Title: BAD FOOD!!!!!!!!!!! Date:12/16/2011 7:11:39 AM  
  You are right it is over, but then lower the damn price what your paying for is the WHOLE package, would you buy a car with 3 good tires and 1 bad one?? HELL no you want the the whole thing, after all it is what you are PAYING for isn't, and it isn't just the food they have gotten really rude staff memebers at times. So out 4 items 2 are great and 1 is really crappy and 1 really shitty. So you are ok with this after all you are the person paying!
  Rating: 7


Title: Enough About the Food Already! Date:12/11/2011 1:33:21 PM  
  Geez people. You really gauge a swinger's club by its FOOD? Face it; the food era at the Floor is over. If it's not available pre-fab in a box or pre-cooked, it lilely won't show up on the menu anymore.

We were there for the 10th anniversary and what was billed to be a spectacular buffet fare was little more than pre-cooked Sam's meat that was sitting out for carving by a bartender and getting cold. There were no side dishes, veggies, no gravy, nothing. By 10 o'clock, there no plates, forks, napkins, etc. I heated my slice of pork in the microwave and wrapped a roll around it. I'm guessing the owner is slowly cutting costs. He's clearly saving a bundle on the food!

The bottom line is, if you have a problem with the buffet, EAT SOMEWHERE ELSE! The dance floor and play rooms were packed all night and people had a great time. It's still the best lifestyle place in town; buffet notwithstanding.


  Rating: 7


Title: BAD FOOD!!!! Date:12/5/2011 7:55:25 PM  
  They had a great cook at onetime, not sure what ever happened to him though...Then the DJ's wife did it and it was ok, but you are so right about RUDE folks who work there...
  Rating: 5


Title: Come On Already... Date:11/14/2011 10:56:32 AM  
  We've been coming to the floor for a year. We always loved the atmosphere, the music, the crowd, the staff, and especially the food. Most people go there to party and play and not to eat. But when you set people's expectations, you had better learn to manage them. The fact is the food over the last several weeks has completely sucked. It tastes like it's prepared by a heavy smoker with wasted taste buds. The presentation is nonexistent and looks like it was just tossed out with no thought. You know the "main course" sucks when the olives, veggies, and chips are gone by 11:00 and the "prepared" food is left untouched.

Maybe Lynn is suffering from economic woes and has just cheapened up the menu, but the crowd numbers we've seen there don't look that way. I can take crappy food and we can just eat out before coming to a party. What I can't take is being rudely bitched out by some fat redhead with a chip on her shoulder for making a comment about the crap food to another guest. Apparently she's the replacement. If so, she needs to accept the fact that she can't hold a candle to the previous cook. She sure can't handle criticism.

I hope though that Lynn gets the fact that many people there see the buffet as partial justification for his prices being higher than other clubs in Dallas.

Come on already. Bring back the REAL cook!

  Rating: 7


Title: Halloween party Date:10/31/2011 11:02:34 AM  
  We went to the Halloween party on Saturday night. We have to say that is was simply the best party we've been to! The 13th floor never disappoints and on Saturday night they threw a legendary one. Everything had been taken to the next level from the DJ and bar service to the decorations (nice job Wendy) it was the best we've seen it. Nice job!
  Rating: 10


Title: Halloween fun Date:10/30/2011 3:36:01 PM  
  Last night was an awesome party! Yes, the place was crowded, but the line for bar service was never long and people were mingling throughout the house, not just in the dance floor area. Most of the people were in costumes and everyone looked great. It was a pretty young crowd overall, some over 50's but mostly 20's to early 40's. Lots of eye candy! The music was great and people were dancing all night long. Len and Wendy went all out with the decorations. We've been to clubs all over the USA and this one is by far the best we've seen anywhere. Love it! We'll be back again and again!!!
  Rating: 10


Title: Best club in Texas Date:10/27/2011 12:49:11 AM  
  I have worked at 2 local clubs and even while doing so I always said that this was the best one of all. Nothing compares or even comes close. It is becasue of this club that I have such a huge group of friends. I agree with a previous should come here first. Then you will not want to go any other place.....but if you do then you will see why it has been around longer and has a stronger base of new and regular patrons than any other. This is the place we and all of our friends love and call home.
  Rating: 10


Title: EH Date:10/19/2011 1:27:20 PM  
  It's okay. If you are looking for young and sexy, it won't be here. It's ok....
  Rating: 6


Title: What a Welcome! Date:9/27/2011 12:47:44 PM  
  I have had some experience in the lifestyle, with a previous wife. I had some good experiences, and some not so good experiences. My partner has NEVER hardly let a stranger see her naked, let alone go to an "On Premise" club. Her trust with me, and curiosity in some aspects of the "Lifestyle" led us to have her wildest adventure with your club. The orientation, tour and enforcement of "No Pressure" was a breath of fresh air. Your "Counselors" had us comfortable and at ease from the second we walked in your door. The dancing, food, and welcoming friendship we were extended took away any remaining doubts and inhibitions that might have been lingering. Needless to say, we had the most amazing time! Our relationship, which was intense and exciting to begin with, was shot into orbit! Thank you for providing the cleanest, safest, fun place for couples to explore their wild side. We, most definately, will be returning again, and again, and again................

K & T

P.S. I think we have created a monster!!!!! LOL I Love It!!!!!

  Rating: 10


Title: Glow - Off The Hook! Date:9/19/2011 7:53:43 PM  
  First timers last weekend. We had so much fun Friday we went back Saturday. We were warned that the crowd would be huge and they were right. The place was lit up for florescent outfits and the party was off the hook. The staff was friendly despite being very busy.

Great music
Great atmosphere
Great membership
Great place

  Rating: 10


Title: The 13th Floor! Off the Chain! Date:8/24/2011 3:45:57 PM  
  Hey Everyone, Big John and Christy here. We must indeed voice our opinions about the 13th floor! This establishment is simply incredible. We had the greatest time of our lives last weekend. We went Friday and Saturday to discover that we will go back to the 13th floor any chance we get without a doubt whatsoever. The food is delicious, the crowd is awesome, and the house is very high class and clean to the letter. The music was sensational and very diverse to please everyone. The service was outstanding, and we were mesmerized by the quality of everything. As newcomers, we felt so welcome and invited. Everyone there is so sociable and cool. We are in love with the place. This is the place to go. No doubt! One word to describe the 13th floor. WOW!
  Rating: 10


Title: First Visit - Far From the Last Date:7/20/2011 2:24:12 PM  
  Our only exposure to the 13th Floor was what we were told about it by people working at the Velvet Curtain. After visiting with friends who had been there before and insisted that we see it for ourselves, we understand why the Curtain people said the things they did. They can't hold a candle to the 13th Floor. The club size, its parking, its people, their food, their DJ, their bar, the cleanliness, and the staff were all many levels above other clubs we've attended.

As public school administrators, my husband and I are most concerned with security and discretion. We felt more of both at the 13th Floor than at any other lifestyle club we've visited.

The contest they had was most entertaining and the enthusiasm of the crowd, staff, and the participants was infectious. We've never had so much fun with our clothes on or felt so comfortable with them off!

  Rating: 10


Title: Favorite Place to Swing in DFW Date:6/21/2011 10:11:02 PM  
  Even before we moved to the DFW area, we were traveling 5 hours to go to this club. It's one of our favorites. It's full of "real" people who know how to have fun. The hosts are wonderful and the volunteers are great. We highly recommend it.
  Rating: 10


Title: Like It! Date:6/3/2011 12:02:05 PM  
  Dance Floor too small? Maybe you were at the VC. Old people? Maybe you were at the Minx. Bar crowded? Yeah, at times, but it never impeded our party. We were newbies to the 13th Floor during Memorial Day weekend and loved it so much we went back on Sunday. We've been to several other places in and around Dallas and have finally found one we're willing to go back to. We should have listened to our friends and not the other club owners. To that point, no one at the 13th Floor had anything bad to say about the other clubs we mentioned when we brought up that we had been to them. This is a lesson in grace that the other operators should learn.

We got in free at one club early on a Friday, but soon after we arrived followed two other couples to the 13th Floor. Glad they called to get us on the list because we barely made the newbie cut-off time. The staff were friendly and genuinely concerned with us having a good time. We never felt threatened by the location and felt confident in the secluded parking. The DJ even walked me to my car at 3am. The music was great and the food (which we never expected) was delicious.

I think all the clubs have something to offer. The 13th Floor seems to offer us the most for our dollar.

  Rating: 9


Title: Hit or miss Date:5/25/2011 12:21:53 PM  
  Been to 13th Floor a few times and can't say that we've been impressed. We keep going back hoping that the previous visits were flukes. Maybe it's just us. If you like a room full of old people, this may be the club for you.

The dance floor is wayyyy too small and crowds the bar area. I didn't buy good beer to have to drink it out of a plastic cup--at least have chilled mugs!

  Rating: 1


Title: great place except for the smoking.. Date:3/17/2011 10:31:57 AM  
  I love the place, like the people, crowd can be hit or miss, but I think you find that any place. The smoking in the main dance area is CHOKING,., As a non-smoker, I dont mind if others do, but come on.. It is overwhelming in this area, 50-60 people and at least half of them smoking the rest of us out.
  Rating: 7


Title: Response to "From the Owners of the 13th Floor" Date:2/15/2011 5:38:40 PM  
  This lifestyle demands two things; anonymity and respect. Your requesting the complainant to contact you removes the anonymous aspect. The fact that you really think such a discussion is necessary - given what you and everyone who goes (or used to go) there knows to be true about her - is truly disrespectful.

It's a shame because the Floor is outstanding in just about every other aspect.

  Rating: 9


Title: Energy Energy Energy Date:1/17/2011 8:19:49 PM  
  Wow! We have been to AM, IQ, the VC (old and new), and BD's - all before trying the 13th Floor because of one couple's opinion. We won't knock the other clubs, but NONE of them match the energy and true party atmosphere the 13th Floor has. If we had been to the 13th Floor sooner, we would have had the favorable view of the lifestyle that we currently enjoy MUCH sooner. There were lots of new couples, lots of great food, lots of regular attendees, and LOTS of play. We were a bit nervous about on-site play and feeling pressured. There was NO pressure and the play ares are separated from the dance/bar part of the club.

If a high-energy party experience is what you seek, the 13th Floor is the place. We were impressed and we will be back.

  Rating: 9


Title: Love it!!! Date:1/8/2011 4:02:07 PM  
  Finally got to meet the hot bartender's wife. She is so sweet and amazingly hot! They need to keep this couple coming and make him bring her more often. lol
  Rating: 10


Title: From the Owners of the 13th Floor Date:1/7/2011 10:29:20 PM  
  As the owners of the 13th Floor, it has always been our policy to not respond to reviews posted on any site. We are very pleased that the vast majority of reviews we receive are very positive and we believe that those positive reviews speak to the high quality parties that we host at the 13th Floor. We realize that sometimes there are people that have a less than satisfactory experience and while we may not respond to the review online, we take the comments they make seriously and evaluate them to see if we feel we can make changes that would improve the 13th Floor.

The review immediately below this one is very concerning to us as owners of the 13th Floor. However, it is very difficult for us to take appropriate action based on an anonymously posted review. We would greatly appreciate it if whomever posted this review (or the other couples referred to in the review) would contact us by phone, email or even in person at an upcoming party. We promise to keep any discussion we have confidential.

We are always willing to listen to any concerns that our guests bring to us as we are always striving to make the 13th Floor one of the best party houses anywhere.

Len & Wendy

  Rating: 10


Title: Bitchy WIves Club Part 2 - Workers Date:1/5/2011 6:24:10 PM  
  I will get right to the point. The wife of the bald headed dude that works there is rude, unfriendly, very unapproachable, and makes couples feel unwanted. She throws her weight around like she is the owner. Several couples have gotten sideways with her because of her insulting ways and will not return to the floor until she is GONE. Managment if you are listening...time to shake up the pot and get some new help. This one is hurting you.
  Rating: 5


Title: Last REAL Club in Dallas Date:1/2/2011 7:33:06 PM  
  We tried going to the Grand Opening New Years Eve Party at what used to be the best club in Dallas. Found that the new location was a dramatic decline from the original venue and they had grossly overbooked the place to the point you couldn't even find a spot to sit a drink down. We, along with a number of others left immediately and went to the Floor.

When we arrived we very happily found that the new owners have really spruced the place up, added lighting, murals and it sounded like the sound system had been redone. We had an awesome time and WILL be back....often! The Floor offers a full spread so there's no need to even have dinner before you arrive. The food variety is extensive, plentiful, clean and very tasty. As for the playrooms, they're always clean and the people mind their manners.

The only negative is the location of the bar, which can and does encroach on the dancefloor when there's a large crowd. Still, all-in-all a great club where you feel welcome, safe and will leave with a smile.

  Rating: 9


Title: Sold!!! Date:11/11/2010 11:09:34 PM  
  Only been to the floor twice, and will be back 3,4,5,6,more times more. It all started a couple weeks ago on halloween night, the biggest night of all to dress up in your costumes. We just sat and watched to get a feel for the club. Last Saturday night we attended the floor again, and we had the BEST time! We met a couple and got it on in the semi-private area, as we walked back to our table we instead went to the open play area and BAM!!!...fell into women playing twister...vagina style! My girl was su*king and I was fu*king feverously, must have used 10 condoms, all courtesy, the floor. Way to go 13th floor for having our backs! Well be back!! (Terminator)

Only issue I have is fix the bar line so we are not on the dance floor and clear some of the smoke somehow. Even if you don't fix these area's I will still be back, lmao! Yes people it's that much fun there.

P.S. ALL the couples there young and old rock!

  Rating: 9


Title: We Give it a 10 Date:11/3/2010 10:01:08 AM  
  We've been to the Floor a few times and always had a good time. Having moved to Fort Worth from Vegas, we have many clubs to compare and I always post reviews of the clubs we visit nationwide. I waited to post a review of the Floor until I saw how they handled a real crowd.

We attended Saturday's Halloween party and were blown away. The owners spared no expense in decorations and food and the staff were well prepared for the VERY large crowd. The line to get into the place when the doors opened at 8:30 was indicative of a high spirited crowd who was ready to party. The Floor did not disappoint. The costumes were excellent and the people were friendly and spirited.

It was a very large crowd. If you're thinking of visiting the 13th Floor and you don't like large crowds, I recommend you don't go on a theme party weekend. We've been on a Friday, a regular Saturday, and now a themed Saturday and they were all great parties.

The Floor has a great staff - very friendly and attentive. We've always felt secure and welcome there. On our first visit, the guy who did our orientation was very informative and turned an otherwise boring talk in to a jovial interactive chat. The tour guide was very cute and genuinely happy to show us the ropes.

We were worried when we moved to Texas that we wouldn't have a place to play. We love the Floor and will be back!

  Rating: 10


Title: 13th Floor Fucking Rocks! Date:10/4/2010 3:36:44 AM  
  Partied at the 13th Floor this this past weekend. Friday was good enough that we went back on Saturday. Went only to satisfy curiosity. Boy were we surprised! We're just getting started in the LS, but this club has it all. Wonderful, fun, nice, friendly people. Clean, neat, an abundance of places to play, great music and laser show to dance, music not so loud you can't talk. We've been to Iniquity and After Midnight many times, but 13th Floor will be our "go to" club. Len and his team are awesome. Thanks Y'all for a memorable weekend. We'll be back with all our friends as soon as possible and whenever possible!
John and Mellisa (TheDemonKiss)

  Rating: 10


Title: You're Both Wrong Date:9/22/2010 7:47:40 PM  
  If J&K are referring to T&S, they're wrong. They were on a vacation. I spoke with S last weekend and the food is as good as ever - much better with a wider variety than any other club we've been to. But, forget the food and take a look at the total hottie hunk at the front desk!! Wowsers!
  Rating: 10


Title: Bad Food and Rude Owners Date:9/21/2010 2:41:45 PM  
  We've been there twice. Loved the energy of the folks that go there and the DJ was great, but the food was very bad and yes, it IS a part of the whole package as one earlier person said. Owners were both very rude when asked to handle one of their regulars that was very drunk and continued to bother our guest. In fact the owners wife was snotty, sarcastic and seemed to think she was "above it all". Don't feel we'll be back.
  Rating: 3


Title: J&K you are right about the food Date:8/29/2010 4:28:19 PM  
  We went about 23 times over the past 4 yrs and they had a great cook, and while food isn't everything it is a big part of the whole package. it started out kind of crappy when T&N had it then got lots better, and was great when B&V had it, then it seems there cook just left. But so did the cleaner it seems..LOL
  Rating: 6


Title: Love the club Date:8/28/2010 12:50:41 PM  
  I'm a single guy. In most clubs the word single guy throws up a red flag. Well in this club it can as well depending on your attitude and personality.

Guys look......its simple. Don't be aggresive with the couples at this club. Lay back.....observe and watch. Not to say stare, but watch and have a good time most of all watching beautifull women dance.

I have been going to the club for a short time now. Have met some great couples, but have only played a few times. Guys.....I'm telling you, let the couples come to you. Don't be aggresive, or you might be asked to leave. Kick back and have a good time. After all, that's what its all about.

And the owners are the best. They take great care of their club. PLUS!!!! They don't ever make exceptions to their rules. For anyone......

  Rating: 10


Title: Hot Bartender!!!! Date:8/16/2010 9:50:47 PM  
  I went to the 13th floor on 8/13 I've been before with friends and always have an amazing time. I just had to write a review and let all the ladies know on fridays they have a hot, hot, hot bartender. He is sweet and very attentive. Take my advice and go meet this guy he is great!
  Rating: 10


Title: newbies Date:8/14/2010 1:14:28 PM  
  We attended for he first time ever on Fri and Sat nite (last in July). We had a great time! Indeed, as everyone seems to want to point out,there are some larger and older couples in attendance. Just remember...being "older" myself , what l may lack in looks l definetly make up in enthusiasm !!! See you there...
  Rating: 10


Title: Pleasantly Surprised Date:8/10/2010 12:26:47 PM  
  Just getting back into the lifestyle after previously only having visited IQ and AM. We were very hesitant about attending the 13th Floor due the reviews about overweight and older couples. Well we attended last Friday and it yes it was true there were some older and bigger couples but there was also an equal amount of younger (30's-40's)and HWP couples. It was also a great turnout for a Friday nite about 30-40 couples. Everything was decent, clean and everyone was friendly. Also liked the fact that when you meet someone you like you can get right down to business. Lets face if you have kids like us you dont get out often so when you do you want to make the most of it. Play rooms are not completely private but unlike AM and IQ after spending a lot on the entry fee you don't need to rent a hotel room to have some fun.
This is a true lifestyle club and we will definitely be back and will try a Saturday nite this time.

  Rating: 10


Title: Hmmm...Changes Afloat? Date:8/9/2010 2:05:45 PM  
  We've loved the floor for years and go whenever we are in town. Seems like changes are afloat. Some key people are gone and it looks like they took the kitchen talent with them. We're there to play, not to eat but one thing that made the Thirteenth Floor a cut above its competition was the consideration the owner gave his guests with a full, professionally presented menu.

People come and go in this lifestyle and there are plenty of places to eat in Dallas, but somethings stick out when you're accustomed to having them. We still recommend the Thirteenth Floor to everyone.


  Rating: 8


Title: First Visit - Not the Last Date:6/8/2010 4:45:29 PM  
  We're new to the lifestyle and had visited three other clubs in the Dallas area before seeing the Thirteenth Floor last Saturday night. One club was a seedy bar in downtown Dallas with fewer than a dozen people - most of whom were single guys chained to the bar. One was a nice old house south of Dallas, but the guests and overwhelming number of single guys creeped us out. Another was apparently a new place, but it was really just a house party in a neighborhood and we remember reading all the news about the Cherry Pit and their neighbors.

Honestly, we were about to give up on clubs and parties and we are so glad we didn't. The Thirteenth Floor is a nice mix of all the above. It's a house, but it's the biggest house we've ever been in and it is arranged to function as a really cool club. It was clean, had a sense of privacy away from any neighbors, didn't have excessive single guys trolling around, and the food was excellent. We ate at a local restaurant before we went, but couldn't pass up the buffet. They should emphasize the free buffet when they call.

The crowd was diverse and friendly and the people who worked there seemed to be a part of the party - not just staff who were on the clock. We didn't encounter any aggressive, bitchy or petty people.

The place could use more table seating and it was a little warm, but many others told us it's usually very cool there. The DJ kept us on the dance floor

  Rating: 9


Title: Best Damn Party House in Town!!! Date:5/31/2010 7:54:51 PM  
  Lehn and Wendy have the best club in town. Our first experience was at The 13th Floor, three years ago. Needless to say we are still coming back on a regular basis. The club provides a safe, friendly environment in which to meet a diverse group of people. Some of our best friendships began here and we continue to make new friends every weekend. Don’t let others sway your decision about “The Floor”, until you have attended at least two parties. Every weekend is completely different from the last. There are no clicks, everyone is very open and friendly and this is the most accepting crowd we have ever experienced. We have been to several of the other clubs in town (Off-premise and On) and they just don’t compare.
  Rating: 10


Title: Love this place - Except for the SMOKING Date:5/7/2010 2:37:52 PM  
  I rate it a 6, but with less or limited smoking, it would easily be a 10. I would describe the smoke as "all pervasive" and "choking". We end up having to leave early most nights because we are feeling sick from all the smoke. The only way to get away from it is it go into one of the front rooms... where almost nobody goes, and you end up sitting there alone most of the night.
  Rating: 6


Title: We love the Floor Date:5/6/2010 12:27:21 AM  
  We haven't been in the last couple of weeks since we are dealing with family necessities at this time but it is our favorite club to attend and we always have a great time when there. The staff is great and everyone in there is consistently very friendly.
  Rating: 10


Title: Bitchy Wives Club or 13th Floor? Date:4/8/2010 1:22:35 PM  
  We love the 13th Floor and have been going to parties for about 6 months now. Like many people here say, it’s clean, it’s fun, we feel safe, and we feel that for the most part the owner genuinely cares that his guests have a good time. What we’ve noticed lately is a real bitchy attitude from what others there refer to as the “wives club”. Everytime we’ve been there, there’s a table near the bar with the same people in the seats. We’ve learned that they are wives of the owner and staff. It’s understandable that being there week after week would get old, but why take it out on the guests? Some of them are nice and are always going out of their way to greet the newcomers and make them feel welcome. But one of them sneers and scowls at most anyone who even looks at her husband. He’s a good-looking, tall, buff, bald guy, so women are going to notice him and in a place like that, they’re going to talk to him. She really should get over the petty jealousy or at least curb the sneers and try to appear friendly.

The other queen in the wives club is (we think) the owner’s wife. Again, if you don’t like some of the guests, why not just look the other way. Hearing her make snide remarks about guests and other staff members to other people makes us wonder what she might say about us when we aren’t around. The “go fuck yourself” looks alone last weekend were enough to make friends of ours who were there with us unwilling to return anymore.

With or without our friends, we’ll be back. We’re adults and have been in the lifestyle long enough to handle bitchy, petty people. If I were the owner, I’d straighten these two out or have them sit somewhere where the rest of the guests don’t have to put up with their attitudes.

Understand we love everything else about the place. We just expect that at an adult oriented club, everyone (especially the staff) should act like adults.

  Rating: 8


Title: Another great night! Date:3/29/2010 12:47:57 AM  
  Somehow the 13th floor always seems to put together a class act party. It just seems to get better and better. March 27th was no exception. The New Paris Room is to die for. The DJ that night was dead on. He played exactly what he needed to play, and the hard rock toward the end of the night was awesome! Of course the electric atmosphere on the dance floor is always a thrill, but this was all topped of with an unfortunate disruption in music (when the computer crashed the program) and one of the "regular" GUYS there filled the void by climbing the stripper pole and showing us what he's made of! OMG! I will remember that night forever. Hosts were gracious as always. Another great night!
  Rating: 10


Title: The most awesome expierence Date:3/15/2010 9:22:07 AM  
  I love this place. This is a place where you can be your self or get a little crazy. My wife and I are not swingers, but love to watch sex and have it. This is the perfect place to go, you can make this club a normal club with site seeing or you can be the club. By the way great hot tub with fire place. LOVE IT. WE'LL BE THERE EVERY SATURDAY!!!!
  Rating: 10


Title: Valentine Party Date:2/16/2010 6:25:41 PM  
  First time there; invited by friends we see at another Dallas club. Good:

No paying for ice/set-ups

No tipping the bartenders and DJ

Parking with visible security and drop off/pick up at front door

Real food; not just snacks

DJ was dead on

Real lifestyle play - not just posers who think they'e on the edge

Hosts mingled among the crowd and seemed genuinely liked by the regulars

Outside patio area - clean and spacious

VERY clean play areas

Could be improved:

Orientation for the apparent large group of newcomers seemed unorganized

The bar got too crowded at times

More table seating

  Rating: 9


Title: Smoking? Really? Date:2/4/2010 4:38:41 PM  
  We went both nights last weekend, returning after a husband-imposed hiatus from the lifestyle. There was smoke, but no more than other clubs that allow smoking. The DJ a fog machine thing, but the fog had no smell and didn't leave my hair or clothes stinking.

We think the club is better than it's ever been. Way to go Lynn!

  Rating: 9


Title: SMOKING Date:2/2/2010 8:15:58 PM  
  We have been to most of the clubs in the DFW area and we think the 13th floor is just ok. The biggest problem that we found is the smoking. Smoking should be reserved for outside ONLY. The club is clean and nice environment but the smoke in the place is just heavy and disgusting.
  Rating: 4


Title: Good Clean Fun Date:1/27/2010 3:12:59 PM  
  We've been regulars at AM and IQ and recently discovered the Thirteenth Floor after an invite from friends. Last Saturday was a total blast. Friendly crowd, nice buffet spread, killer dance floor, and plenty of play action. We really liked not feeling obligated to tip the DJ and bar tenders (they both refused my offer) and not being nickeled and dimed to death for ice, drink set-ups, etc like at other clubs. We felt secure in the environment and welcomed by the staff and regulars.
  Rating: 10


Title: Post Halloween Party Date:11/25/2009 4:27:04 PM  
  On Halloween “Bob Villa” did our first timers meeting and gave us a tour asked us to not judge their club by the Halloween crowd. It was pretty crowded, but we've never has so much fun so we took his advice and came back last weekend for both nights. We had even more fun this time. The club was clean. The food spread was excellent and more than we ever expected. In short, the party was excellent and we’re hooked. The wife thinks Bob Villa is way hotter out of costume.
  Rating: 10


Title: Halloween @ the Floor Date:11/9/2009 5:00:59 PM  
  Was insane. Yeah, probably too crowded. But the costumes were excellent and I heard they gave out good money as prizes. People really took time and went all out on costumes. It was our first time there or we would have dressed up too. The club decorations were excellent! If it were all about the money, I doubt they would have spent that money on such elaborate, lit up, moving displays with sound effects and such.

We didn't see any condoms or cigarettes in the hot tub we were in. I mean, really...who would actually think a condom would work in a hot tub in the first place? There were body parts in the tub. They tossed fake dismembered hands, feet, and organs in the tubs. Maybe the Halloween effect was lost on some of the guests, but I thought it was funny.

We found the place clean and orderly when we arrived, but we had to get there early because we were new. Things got a bit messy later, but with 250 people, I would expect so. Still, we saw people emptying trash cans, replacing sheets, and putting out more food well after midnight.

We come through Dallas every couple of months and had always gone to Inequity. We loved the friendly, laid back atmosphere at the 13th Floor. We were made to feel welcome from the instant we signed in until we left and were wisely advised to put our liquor in the trunk of our car. We hope to be back for new years eve.

Kay & Cyle

  Rating: 9


Title: Halloween and the scary hot tubs Date:11/4/2009 12:42:26 PM  
  We went to the halloween party good party, BUT way to many folks,BUT it is all about the numbers and MONEY after all isn't it, and DON'T go into the Hot tubs after 1030 unless you want to dodge the condoms, cig butts, and other garbage floating by...
  Rating: 7


Title: Our Favorite Club in Dallas - Secluded and Fun Date:10/19/2009 12:06:11 PM  
  We've been multiple occasions to the 13th floor and have had some really great times. Nice outdoor area to get away from the crush and music, good dance floor, very good dj and sound system, public and private play rooms, clean changes of sheets and plenty of fresh towels, clean restrooms with showers, and a dance pole. Ages were typically middle age and older. Enough HWP couples for us to socizlize, but there is a mix, so if you want an exclusive Ken and Barbi party this isn't it. The club is well secluded, so no privacy issues, or community problems that we're aware. Some single males, but not so many it was ever an issue. There is a dance pole on a smallish size dance floor, so it's a little difficult for women to get some room to dance by themselves on the pole. Not enough seating, be prepared to mingle and move around on a busy night. Too few bath rooms, sometimes lines develop. Very polite and nice hosts/staff, they go out of their way to make it a pleasant, clean, safe, and sexy environment.
  Rating: 8


Title: Wow! Just Wow! Date:9/20/2009 6:04:48 PM  
  Holy shit! We just discovered the thirteenth floor on a free view party labor day weekend and went back for a killer disco party last night with another new couple. The people are friendly - everyone treated us like old friends. Our nervous newbie friends were put at ease by the guy who did their orientation and his wife who gave them a tour. They did this BEFORE taking a donation, which is very considerate and shows confidence that the owners know they have a lot to offer.

Both parties we went to were great. The club is clean and professionally run, but still has a friendly atmosphere like a party - not a business.

There's a buzz in Oklahoma about the thirteenth floor for sure. I'm glad my wife responded to the web invite. We can't wait to see the halloween party.

  Rating: 10


Title: Returned to a GREAT Club! Date:9/1/2009 8:59:17 PM  
  We used to visit often, but were staying away because of one creepy predator who pretended to own the place. He's no longer there and we are SO glad! The new owners have done a phenomenal job updating the place. The food is great, the music is fresh, and the dance floor is much more high tech than before. We have been back three times the last two months and the crowds have been larger each time. Looking forward to many fun and hot returns!


  Rating: 10


Title: We Like The Floor Date:8/3/2009 12:30:05 PM  
  Nice, laid back atmosphere. We have been about 5 times over the past year. Enjoyed it each time. For the couples with the negative comments about the larger people, who cares. Everyone is there to have fun. If you don't like it, don't go. Stay at home and have sex with your partner. We gave it an eight because of the smaller dance floor and not enough room in the bar/lounge area.
  Rating: 8


Title: Fun Fun Fun Date:7/29/2009 5:33:39 PM  
  We frequent this club often and are HWP and on the younger side. I have to admit there are quite a few big girls but, I have never met people as nice and fun as the people at the floor. Give it a chance you won't regret it.
  Rating: 10


Title: The LARGE crowd scare. Date:7/27/2009 10:09:37 AM  
  Look we go to clubs all the time, if you have a fear of BIG folks just look on any of the swingers sites and most clubs post there guest list, then look up the profile and WOW you have what and who will be coming to the party. That way you know BEFORE you even go out the door if you really want to go to this or any club.
  Rating: 7


Title: Cool Place - All Sizes Date:7/14/2009 5:15:58 PM  
  We've been to the Floor a few times now and have only recently discovered these swinger websites. While the reviews here are interesting, some are way off the mark for the times we were there. The place is very clean. We have seen new paint and furniture twice in the past couple of months. The crowds are varied and have been large every time we were there. There are some big people there, but there are big people everywhere - in the mall, at the other clubs, etc. Some of the couples we spoke with mentioned other places and described them as dirty, full of old guests, full of fake people posing as swingers, or they have no place to play when you meet people. We were completely new to all of this. Literally everyone we ask recommends the 13th Floor and we do too.
  Rating: 9


Title: Previous post Date:7/8/2009 9:11:10 AM  
  How can you give a serious review of a club if you only stay long enough to take a tour. At the 13th Floor new couples are asked to arrive by 9:30 while most other guest arrive later.This review sounds like a swinger wannabe who knows nothing about the lifestyle. Next time you visit a club at least stay long enough to give an honest review.Or better still just stay home and look into the mirror.Maybe then you will find someone that pleases you. R.....
  Rating: 9


Title: The clientele is the problem Date:7/4/2009 11:06:09 PM  
  First off, let me say that the people running this club are as nice as can be, they were extremely welcoming to us even though it was clear from their reactions on seeing us that we did not belong. We ended up leaving after the tour of the club because we did not see a single person we would have considered playing with even after drinking - the setup was nice, the beds and areas were attractively laid out, and had the clientele been more attractive to us, it would have been a good place to party.

However, the "large" comments on this review site are dead on. The best looking woman in the place was the tour guide, and she was over 50, but at least she was HWP. It's unfortunate that I feel I must post this because as I said they were extremely nice to us and I almost feel a tinge of betrayal in coming here and posting a negative review, but honestly unless you are into BBW's, both of the male and female variety, I would steer clear of this club.

  Rating: 2


Title: First Time Back In Years Date:5/26/2009 10:04:47 AM  
  We returned to the 13th Floor for the first time in over 5 years and were shocked at the transformation in the place. It’s much larger and has been very updated. The crowd was somewhat younger and much less cliquish than we remembered. Everyone seemed to know everyone, but outsiders like us were accepted into group conversation as if we had been there every week and that is rare in this lifestyle; especially at a long established club. Our favorite area was their huge patio with the hot tubs and an enormous play bed. We could enjoy a conversation outside without the inside dance music and get a glimpse of some action at the same time. The food was outstanding and there was plenty of it all night. The buffet is one of the things that sets this club apart from the others we’ve been to.

The only negative we observed is that parking lot is a bit dark and might be confusing for new comers. It was a long walk in heels. I never felt insecure though because one of the staff walked us to our car lighting the way with a flashlight.

We talked, we danced, we ate, we played, we had a fantastic evening. We will return.

  Rating: 10


Title: fun Date:5/20/2009 4:00:59 PM  
  We've enjoyed going to the 13th Floor for a couple of years now. The crowd was kinda "large" for a while but lately the crowd has started getting better looking. The only other problem that we see with this place is how crowded it has gotten. We like being in a popular and exciting place but on regular Sat nights (and especially holidays) there is no room to turn around. Even the patio is jammed. I (the Mrs) don't like to stand up all night. We think that its time to add on....
  Rating: 8


Title: Cos and Pros Date:4/24/2009 1:33:52 PM  
  You were probably at the Silver Minx. We have attended parties at the 13th Floor numerous times and have never observed the scene described below. The 13th Floor is very well run and extremely clean. The crowds are friendly and fun to be around. Every club can have an off night., although some things or people are never good enough for some people. Maybe you should try Inequity where no one is young and hot enough for anyone!
  Rating: 9


Title: Pros and Cons Date:4/20/2009 1:05:15 PM  
  We've been there many times, and like most clubs it has its pros and cons. The place seems to cater to the older crowd (45+), especially on Fridays which can be outright scary. HWP, height-weight proportional, is also pretty rare. As a young (early 30's), very attractive couple, we really don't fit in. Even on Saturday, you would be lucky to see 4-5 attractive couples under 40yrs old... not great odds if you're a hot young couple. We often leave early due to the older, unattractive crowd (for us).

However, the layout is the best in Dallas. We love the hot tubs and the semi private play area. It's fairly well run and clean. We've not had any issues with single men. For us, it's a great place to take a couple, but not a great place to find a couple. We simply won't go there alone anymore. If you fall into the age group that is predominate there and your standards are a bit lower, then you'll have blast! It's a genuine swingers club.

  Rating: 7


Title: Wow! Date:4/14/2009 6:00:21 PM  
  It IS a great place, but the DJ is a woman. She's very intuitive and reads a crowd well. I would like more Salsa, but the dance floor is always full during the meat of the parties.
  Rating: 9


Title: Absolute great place to go! Date:4/13/2009 6:19:37 PM  
  The DJ is a great fuck. Try him out!
  Rating: 10


Title: Finally! Date:3/30/2009 3:34:53 PM  
  We travel to Dallas/Fort Worth regularly and have always been to an off-premise club in Dallas. We tried the 13th Floor after a recommendation from friends at the club we normally attend. The place was great and the guests and staff were very friendly. My wife finally came out of her shell and played for the first time anywhere. She was very comfortable there, as was I in letting her let go. The other positive reviews here are right. These are real people in a real lifestyle setting; not posers.
  Rating: 9


Title: No Time to Write a Book - Great Place Date:3/10/2009 4:49:52 PM  
  This place is great. We've been to all the DFW clubs except the floor. We partied and played all night.
  Rating: 10


Title: La De Da - Mardi Gras Date:2/23/2009 10:51:53 AM  
  WOW! My wife and I were one of 20 or so new couples at this club for their Mardi Gras party. This place and the party inside were great! They told us in our orientation that it is a private home, but it’s bigger than many clubs we’ve been to. If you’re nervous about going to a place like this for the first time, then I suggest you go to the 13th Floor. The presentation is great and the relaxed environment and comfort level is no accident. I couldn’t wait to get past the short orientation and into the dance room down the hall. As we sat at our table, we could see the lights, hear the music, and watch non-new couples come in and out. I guess the orientation for new people is a legal technicality, but it also made for a great tease for us new couples doing the paperwork. I didn’t like having to show my drivers license, but I guess that’s a Texas thing and they told us we only do that the first time there. We had a short tour from a cute blonde who explained the rules and highlights of all the activity rooms and then they turned us loose. Here is something we’ve never seen before. They gave us a complete tour before taking our entry money. Most places take your money and if you aren’t comfy or just don’t like what you see, tough luck. Also, bring cash because they don’t take credit cards.

This is supposed to be a review, so here are our opinions:

Friendly People: 10
Most everyone we spoke to or even looked at said hello and introduced themselves. The dance floor and bar were crowded at times, but people did their best to make room as others passed through.

Food: 10
The food was outstanding and there was a lots of variety. Most places toss out chips/dip and frozen finger foods and call it a buffet. They had a REAL buffet with REAL cooked food that was REAL, REAL good....actually better than restaurant food to me because it had a home cooked appeal.

Cleanliness: 10
My wife is a nurse and is really picky about sanitation and refuses to play in places she isn’t comfortable. It was really clean there and despite the very large crowd, somehow it remained clean all night long. They have four full bathrooms and there were always clean sheets and towels.

Bar Service: 9
The bar got really crowded and it seemed the staff was overwhelmed at times. They always seemed to have extra people to help but early in the night when we dropped off our bottles, there was a wait just to get started. They had a great variety of sodas and juices though, and the bar tenders were always friendly. They even refused my tip.

Entertainment: 9
The dance floor and bar area are way cool. The lights and sound were professional quality, but not ear-splitting and overwhelming. When we first arrived, the music was dated; really dated. But, as the night went on, the dj started playing more current songs and the dance floor eventually filled up.

Overall, we gave the place a 9. We felt welcome and safe. The private parking was a nice change. Most lifestyle clubs are not in the nicest area of town and walking to and from your car can be tense. The patio was large and lots of fun with the two hot tubs and large play bed that stayed occupied most of the night. The couple who brought us there people there told us that this was the best place in town for real people; not posers. They are right and we will be back.

  Rating: 9


Title: Are You Sure it Was the Same Place? Date:2/9/2009 2:21:45 PM  
  My husband and I took a couple of years off after emptying our nest and despite having read the most recent comment, visited the 13th Floor on a Saturday night.

Maybe they didn’t visit the new large patio with two hot tubs, suspended space heaters, a fireplace, and a huge, smartly-lit play area. I don’t have the self confidence to participate out there, but plenty of others did and it was quite exciting to watch. The calmer, relaxing music out there was a pleasant change from the main dance floor.

Maybe they didn’t look up and see the neat new (to us) lighting and sparkle thingy showering the dance floor. Maybe they didn’t notice the younger, cuter DJ who seemed to keep the dance floor packed with all sorts of music styles. We would have like to hear more country music, but she did play the song my husband requested and we enjoyed a romantic slow dance together.

Maybe they haven’t visited other clubs, but it has been our worldly experience that the 13th Floor management has a keen sense of detail when it comes to cleanliness. It is by far the cleanest such establishment in the Dallas area and one of the cleanest we have visited anywhere.

As for security, we never saw or heard any old drunk guy that remotely appeared to work there in such a capacity. It was clear that there were people keeping an eye on things, but no one seemed pushy in any way. One gentleman stood and waited with me on the porch so I wouldn’t be alone there while my husband was getting our car. I offered him a beer out of the cooler he carried out for me and was told that he and most of the staff there didn’t drink during the parties. Few such places we have visited (after collecting our money) ever demonstrated the least concern for our security, opinion, or if we even enjoyed ourselves

As I stated above, it has been a few years since we have been to the 13th Floor. Other than a few guests and familiar faces, it appears the staff is completely new. When I asked, I was told there is a new owner. We don’t know how new the things we saw are to everyone else, but the new owner(s) have certainly kept up with the times. It makes us wonder if the writer is thinking of the same establishment or perhaps if he/she has some other agenda.


  Rating: 9


Title: Ugh Date:1/28/2009 1:16:19 AM  
  This place has gone downhill over time. The house is really getting run down and needs a thorough cleaning, update and expansion. The old guy who is security enforces rules unequally and can be rude as the night goes on and he appears to get more drunk. There are times that you can meet some attractive people here but overall the crowd can be plus size. They are one of the few lifestyle clubs that you can change the sheets in the play areas.
  Rating: 5


Title: We have been 4 times now and are having a ball Date:12/21/2008 5:10:50 PM  
  We were very new to the on premis scene and i have to admit that it has been a ball. Very low pressure and alot of really nice people. As far as the bovine comments you know it takes alot of different people to make a group and everyone is there for someone. This is coming from a couple that his wifes chest was the talk of the evening and a not so shabby husband. This place is a nice place to hang out. Meet people and just enjoy
  Rating: 9


Title: From the Big Apple to the Lone Star State Date:11/26/2008 11:05:47 PM  
  We flew ourselves into Dallas from Manhattan for weekend business and decided to try some of the local lifestyle flavor. The first club we visited was reported to be the area's most exclusive club complete with platinum memberships and patronized by an elite crowd.

We stayed there less than thirty minutes.

The 13th Floor was actually recommended by another guest at the first club. Finding the place proved to be a bit of a challenge, but a second phone call to the reservation number yielded concise directions and we quickly found our way. I must say we both felt it was well worth the effort. When we entered, the staff warmly greeted us with a short, informal introduction and a review of the rules and followed up with a quick tour of their numerous play and casual gathering areas. It was obvious after this introduction that the proprietors were clearly looking out for the best interests of their guests. My spouse and I were surprised at the number of new couples visiting that night.

We had a wonderful time socializing outside on the spacious patio. I only wish the weather had been cool enough to light the fireplace. We had planned on a short evening, but were enticed to stay until the wee hours of the morning by the music, food, and the friendly Texas crowd.

The 13th Floor is the epitome of Texas hospitality and an exemplary lifestyle establishment. We will return soon and take advantage of that fire place.

Lauren & Grant

  Rating: 9


Title: Rebutal Date:11/19/2008 10:01:43 PM  
  I have been going to the 13th Floor for 7 years. It gets better every time I go. Yes, there are some large women just like every where else in our great country. There are also some pretty hot couples of all ages.
The negative comments by some on this page are obviously made by someone that has been escorted out and told they would not be invited back. Also the numbers of so called single males are inflated by the number of married men that are checking things out while their wives are on the dance floor. Couples don't stay together a hundred percent of the time. You can't believe everything you hear or read so why not check the Floor out yourself. It is safe ,has good staff, good food and is clean. You might even find some pretty cool people to visit with. Ronnie

  Rating: 10


Title: Great Place! Date:11/17/2008 3:27:34 PM  
  I went this past weekend and it was great. Everyone was really welcoming to me: the newbie. Although I wasn't hungry, the food looked good and the place was clean. The person who made those negative comments must have gone to the wrong place because I am picky and this place was tasteful. I'll be going back as soon as I can!
  Rating: 9


Title: Great Place to Meet and Party!!! Date:11/11/2008 10:34:49 PM  
  This place is awesome!! The staff is very professional and always on top of things. The food is great(provided the BBW gals don't eat it ALL). The guests are always a very good mixture of age and ethnic diversity. The DJs always play excellent music that appeals to the crowd. We have been there many times and have never had any trouble of any kind!! THANKS! 13th FLOOR for many wonderful years!!!

  Rating: 9


Title: Hey it is OUR kind of PLACE girls. Date:11/9/2008 8:40:00 PM  
  I have to admit, that we never thought after the Cherry Pit closed we would ever find a place that makes us BBW's feel at home. Well the 13th Floor is the place.The food is good and ALOT of it(WINK), and as for us BIG GALS it is like hevean.Great music, and friendly folks, only a few things need attention, the beer cooler needs a real cleaning and around the toilets also, and I saw a mouse this weekend.BUT I will recomend to all BBW's out there cum on down this our place girls.
  Rating: 8


Title: first time and loved it Date:11/6/2008 2:53:47 PM  
  My husband and I were there on Saturday night. This was the first time we had been to an on-site club. I was very apprehensive, but there was no reason to be. We had such a great time, I can't wait to go back. It has been all that I can think about since we left.
We were approached by a man at one point, but when I replied nicely that we were not interested, he went away. This did not offend me, why should it?if you never ask, then you never get to play.
Look forward to going again as soon as possible.

  Rating: 9


Title: TOO MANY SINGLE GUYS!!! Date:11/4/2008 3:50:36 PM  
  I was so excited about going and when my husband and I got there all we saw were old men and 300 pound woman...which I am not small but OMG these woman were huge and the single man were every where...the rule is that a single man is not suppose to come into the play rooms...well this old man would come in and just stare and it was so uncomfortable and we paid a lot of money...I believe the Halloween contest was rigid...half the people that was in the finals worked there...I really did not enjoy it...oh and we saw a mouse ran across the I don't think we will be going back!!!
  Rating: 1


Title: A great place to meet people Date:11/3/2008 3:47:13 AM  
  Love the club, the atmosphere, the everything. Let your hair down and have fun kind of place. With a bunch of people that are serious about having fun. It isnt just a place to be teased or flirted with. They mean business. But in a good way.
  Rating: 9


Title: Sounds like there is a need for BDSM Protocals here. Date:9/26/2008 3:02:51 PM  
  Having been in the Life Style for years, and also in to BDSM, I see the need for guidelines. Protocols are a way of keeping it real and fun at the same time. While a single male maybe older might hook with a lady to get in, he should not be allowed to [get-into-a-scene-uninvited], so the implementation of the 15 foot rule, if your not waved to inter the scene, stay out. Management, your job to be on the look out for unwanted interaction, you can still do your job and be friendly i am sure. I will be in Dallas this weekend might stop by with 2 girlies on my arm. Having heard of this place and been to sanctuary, i will pop in late, might have my Kilt on too, you yanks like it so much when we are in town I am no Sean Connery, have fun, don?t make yourself apart of a scene unless your invited. Play well together and be safe, sane, informed and consensual. The Scotsman, PC
  Rating: 5


Title: Great Place for Newbies Date:9/21/2008 6:03:31 PM  
  This was our second experience and our first with on premises. We felt welcome and that the employees really cared about our comfort and safety. There were some overweight people and some older people, but all were equally nice and polite. There were a couple single men there but the one that approached us was very gracious and moved away when we declined assistance.

We will be going back as frequently as finances allow.

  Rating: 10


Title: Wasn't Sure - But Am Now... Date:8/31/2008 12:42:56 PM  
  I read the reviews here and we were reticent to go. Out of concern for privacy and discretion, my wife and I are more into smaller house parties and frankly, some of the reviews on this club made us wonder. They had a huge party last night and we both loved it. While there were people of all sizes there, it was by no means the bovine stampede described by some. The bar gets crowded at times, but they had a nice grocery store type cooler for our canned drinks so we didn't have to wait. Most clubs subject their guests to hours of unintelligible rap music at ear-splitting volume. They played a bit of everything except hard metal. It's a big enough place to need a full DJ booth, but intimate enough to have DJ's that actually play requests. The large patio was a nice place to get away from the crowds, but still offered a view into the dance hall. The club was clean, the party was crowded but fun, and the food (real meal food - not just snacks) was good. We will return.
  Rating: 9


Title: WAY Too Much Fun Date:8/29/2008 2:39:31 PM  
  In our 20+ lifestyle years we've visited numerous party houses around the country and have a pretty good feel for a well-run environment. I am extremely picky when it comes to cleanliness. We visited this house on a Friday and Saturday night over the same weekend. On Saturday, I looked for a straw I stuck deep between two mattresses on Friday. It was gone. The 13th Floor is very clean, very friendly and sports a diverse crowd of fun, outgoing people. We spoke with at least 10 couples who were first-timers there. When 25% of a crowd is new, cliques are almost nonexistent. No couple wants to feel like the 'new meat' in a club. With so many new couples, we never felt that way.

The staff there are fun, friendly, and vigilant. We felt welcome from our orientation on Friday until we left after Saturday's party. It was clear to us that if we were made to feel uncomfortable by another guest, with a word the most gorgeous, silver-haired doll of a man would discreetly take action. We never had to speak such a word and frankly, that's not the sort of action I would have like to see from this particular man.

My only complaint is that the vegetarian buffet on the buffet was somewhat sparse.

We will return and in the mean time, we will tell our friends how much we enjoyed the Floor

  Rating: 9


Title: Awful Date:8/26/2008 9:22:10 PM  
  OK, we are a reasonable looking couple, not models but not the worst society has to offer. This club is full of 330 pound women and men, 55+ year old couples and generally the worst this lifestyle has to offer.

We saw two very attractive couple running out of the door as we came in and to be honest we almost did the same. This could be a good club but it seems the worst this lifestyle has to offer has claimed this club as thier own.

We will NEVER go back and tobe honest while they have the crowd they have it will never in improve cause the better looking couples will be scared away by 300+ pound women and men !!!!

  Rating: 1


Title: cant wait to go back Date:8/1/2008 4:13:04 PM  
  we have been attending the floor for almost a year now. The first time we went and every time thereafter, we have had an acceptional time. They made us feel as though we were a part of the family the first time we came. It was as if everybody new everybody and the place was so laid back. We have played several times at the floor, and have never felt any presure to do so, nor felt uncomfortable in any way. This club is full of fun people, a great atmosphere to go and just let everything go for the moment. We have since, brought new members there that have had blast as well. I would recommend this club to anyone in the lifestyle.
S & S

  Rating: 8


Title: I do not understand any critism of The Floor Date:7/30/2008 3:19:55 PM  
  This place is well run and all problems are always handled quickly and in a totally professional manner. The staff is excellent. The food is always great. The guests are always a very good cross section of age, size, and ethnic diversity. The DJs always play the music that appeals to that nights party group. We have been there many times and have never had any trouble of any kind!!
  Rating: 10


Title: Single Men and Swinging Date:7/20/2008 3:29:56 PM  
  I have read the reviews ahead of mine and I must say, I have never seen so many up-tight people. We, my husband and I, have been in the lifestyle for over 25 years. We have been to many places designed for Lifestyle Play. We have been to The 13th many tims. it's Great. As for the single male being there, well, we wouldnt go to a swingers party that didnt allow single males. For one thing, if a man is single, I dont have to pass on him because his wife doesnt appeal to my husband. I go to these places to have variety and freedom to play without having to worry if someone feels left out because I am attracted to the male and my partner isnt attracted to the other half.If someone is bothered by the single male, maybe they should go to an Off Premise club and when they want to play, go to a hotel room . Swinger Clubs always were, are, and always will be set up to allow the single male access if they want to grow and make sure everyone is getting what they look for in the On Premise Clubs. I like the fact that people watch when I play. Thats why I go to the rooms set up for onlookers. If being watched or single males bother you, then maybe you should check out the off premise places.
  Rating: 10


Title: Fun place Date:7/18/2008 8:43:47 PM  
  This is a well managed club with great crowds, lots of fun people and good food. Everyone is friendly. The volunteer
workers are extremely helpful and a lot of fun to be around, especially the front desk. Also have very helpful tour guides for the first timers. All in all a great place to visit.

  Rating: 10


Title: Not So Much Date:7/15/2008 4:11:53 PM  
  this place is not for us..Too many single guys...too smokey..Bar space way too small and waiting to get to your own drinks..Terribly obese women seems to be the was average at the very best...that's being kind..
  Rating: 1


Title: Wonderfull place Date:7/5/2008 7:58:53 PM  
  Went with my wife and some friends for the first time last night, we're going back to day. The people are not pushy or clickish. Very relaxing atmosphere.
  Rating: 7


Title: Great place to enjoy friends, old and new Date:7/3/2008 8:49:12 PM  
  We have always enjoyed this club. No pressure, always fun, always clean. Host and hostess are always around, making sure all is well.
  Rating: 8


Title: Semi-Regulars Date:7/3/2008 4:11:26 PM  
  We have been to a few clubs and although we are not every weekend clubbers, we always choose the 13th floor when we do go out. We enjoy the great people that are not clickish and judgmental. The atmosphere is very casual as we enjoy not having to get dressed up, especially during the summer. Good music, food and again the awesome people. Never leave the Floor wishing more had happened.
  Rating: 8


Title: great place Date:7/3/2008 3:15:29 PM  
  We visited the floor when the club we were memebers at closed temporarily. The hosts were great the food was fantastic...the atmosphere was outstanding...and we went back for a second night...the people we met were wonderful...not pushy just friendly and open...the playrooms were clean and sanitary and we had a great time...would totally recommend the floor to anyone looking for a great lifestyle event.
  Rating: 10


Title: Don't you mean single mens club? Date:7/3/2008 2:53:53 PM  
  No matter what night you go you can look forward to lots of single men hovering over you waiting to jump in. Talk about Lurkers, geez. Been there more than a dozen time in the last five years and I doubt we ever go back. Sorry.
  Rating: 1


Title: first timers Date:6/17/2008 2:53:54 PM  
  Came out Fri. night.First time at a club.Everyone was so nice and helpful.Made us feel at ease and welcome.We will be going back very soon.
  Rating: 10


Title: Fantasy Oasis Date:6/5/2008 5:17:52 PM  
  WOW, I love the new play area....It is great. Everyone is so respectful and the atmosphere is wonderful. Had a great time there last weekend....I plan on returning.
  Rating: 10


Title: sat nite Date:3/16/2008 11:54:30 AM  
  For there to be no single men on a Saturday nite, there sure seemed to be a lot fo missing ladies then...What is said to be the rule, and what was reality donot old guy walks around all the time with his dork out..asking people who are already involved in play if he can join...GO AWAY DUDE!!I would not reccommend this club to anyone..
  Rating: 1


Title: REBUTTAL to comment on Single Males Date:3/5/2008 10:37:19 PM  
  First off you need to wake up. I am a single female that has been in the lifestyle for 6yrs. I have been to swing clubs all over the US and by far THE 13TH FLOOR is the best on premise club!! They have a good party atmosphere a wide range people. They are not clicky. It is safe and the playroom's are very CLEAN!

Second, I was also present the night the so called single male in the black trench coat was there. He was not a single male he is part of a couple. If he creeped you out by looking, there was several things you could have done to make your night more enjoyable.

1. Speak up at the time the situation arises, tell them you are making me feel uncomfortable could you please stop staring.....
2. Go to the Bordello room which is semi private and does not allow gawkers.
3. Tell management, when they are aware they can handle the situation resposible. I have scene couples and singles (male & female) escorted out of the club for not following the club rules.

It's people like you with bad attitudes and a lack of communication skills that makes a bad night, not a club.

  Rating: 10


Title: The black trench coat,, Date:3/5/2008 7:33:52 PM  
  The guy that was mentioned in the previous post was absolutely NOT a single male and WAS part of a couple. I am ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that what I just stated is 100% true! I have never known of the management of The 13TH Floor not dealing quickly and swiftly with any reported abuse by guys roaming or acting inappropriately!!!! Instead of leaving, please make management aware of the problems and I am positive it will be handled!!! I have persoanlly seen this done many times when guys break the rules in any way and have seen them asked to leave immediately and not to ever return. No single males are EVER allowed at any Saturday Party unless SPONSORED by a couple! That also is 100% true and ABSOLUTE!!!
  Rating: 10


Title: comment on single male Date:10/29/2007 9:58:05 PM  
  as a matter of fact i went to the 13th floor sat night and there was a single male there that was wearing a black trench coat and he did bother men need to start understanding what it is that we are after and it is not creepy eyes staring at me while i try to have a good time . look i paid my money to have this very unpleasant man ruin my night out . my husband and are going to look for some other place to play. i am tired of these guys that belong at a tittie bar being in my space.i paid good money to have this guy make me very uncomfortable.the owners need to get in touch with what swingers parties are all about and it is not to accomodate several single males that are not there for anything but the the money these guy bring in more important than your regular long time customers? please get rid of the annoying single males ! it is just not fun anymore. does anybody notice that all the action seems to be where they are not allowwed . what a shame.wake up!
  Rating: 1


Title: i read your reviews Date:10/20/2007 11:01:47 AM  
  I was looking up the phone number to make a reservation and looked at the reviews for some reason. I deceided to put in my two cents worth as we have been going to the floor for about 4-5 years and I feel like I kinda know what's going on.THE DREADED SINGLE MALE well we I don't know how to fix the problem as it has always at some point in the night bothered us . some might say what are you doing here if you don't want people watching ? That's just it ,watch and shut up, keep your distance until you are invited , the single male like it or not can be very overbearing. I think sometimes these guys have a wife at the party but won't stay with them and they are loud and obnoxiuos. Lets face it guys and gals when we are trying to get our thing going and are interupted by somebody that is rude and loud it RUINS THE MOMENT and it can't be fixed.So they are told by management to cut it out or even leave. Good . That does not in anyway make up for what these guy have done [ or gals for that matter].Come on people show some integrity and be cool to your nieghbors.
I am going to mention another club even though I am making my reservation at the floor. At the Cherry Pit they have a room where no one is alowwed to go unless they are going to get busy,no onlookers , no screaming and loud bullshit that in no way is realated to the activity in the room .The beds are touching each other, no curtains and everytime we have used this room we love it. It is not a free for all grope room where anyone can stick thier head in and irritate someone trying to be intimate.This room works ! We are always comfortable and have very good luck in this room . You can be inches away from someone and not be bothered by them OR you can warm up to them and have your fun. No presure of the dumbrears that are loud and disorderly male or female.
I don't know what the solution is. It is probably diferent for each person.Charge that single male a $100.00 refundable deposit that they frofiet if they act a fool. Make sure ther is a place for us to get away from them without fail. Look we don't hate you single guys we just want you to act cool. We have included a few times the single male but I promise they were not the goofballs cheering ,sneering and loud.
I really don't agree with the review that said 75% of the people wanted those single males there. In my visiting with swingers for the last 14 years I bleieve the number is less than 20% and every time we go some one is bothered by a single or wandering male.Maybe they just need to be educated about swingers etiquit every time they come in. I DON"T KNOW.
I am still going tonight because we love the place and it is a great place to go. If this problem could be fixed you would then have the absolute greatest place of all time hands down.
I still rate it 8 and a 10 if they could control the loud obnoxius inconsiderate overbearing creeps that ruin for some of the folks . not everyone likes these guys . I believe it is the reason the action starts so late. We started the action one night and were treated like crap and we were the only ones gettin it on. no wonder people won't get started till late.SWINGING IS FOR COUPLES AND DATING IS FOR SINGLES. there are places for them to go.

  Rating: 8


Title: Great Spot Date:8/17/2007 3:04:40 PM  
  This is one of the best clubs around. People are all easy going there is not any pushy stuff going on. Place is clean and staff is great. If there is ever a problem then just say something and it is fixed. Music is great and a good mix of people from young to old to fit to not what ever you might like you can find here.
  Rating: 10


Title: Wow Date:7/31/2007 7:27:19 PM  
  We had visited 13th Floor many times in the past and had good times, but hadn't visited since management changed almost two years ago. Last weekend we visited and were absolutely pleased with the entire experience. The facility is very tasteful and clean, and seems to reflect the hosts' sincere desire to have a place where lifestylers can feel comfortable and sexy. The patio is a wonderful addition with its comfortable seating and hot tubs. The group rooms are HOT and conducive to playing and watching. The semi-private room was our favorite, as it had comfortable beds surrounded by sheer material that lended some mystery, but also gave us the ability to watch our fellow couples as they played. There was a nice vibe in the entire club that evening, and we really enjoyed the decor and amenities.

We met a number of attractive couples and single men. The wife half of us loves to dance and wasn't disappointed with the music or the choice of dance partners (though more hip hop would be a great thing!). We ended up playing a bit with other couples and a few singles. In addition, we were able to have a nice time together as a couple and spent some time just making out with each other on the edge of the dance floor. (We point this out because it seems to be reflective of the comfortable and sexy atmosphere the hosts are attempting to create-- it was like a really hot date for us...).

Our advice, if you're looking for a good chance of good times one weekend, would be to invite several people who you've been eyeing on SDC to join you there. We say this not to promote the 13th Floor (we haven't been asked to do that and wouldn't put something inauthentic on here), but to encourage you to create additional opportunities for fun. One thing that would have been a bummer for us would be to get there and not meet people we're attracted to.

We're very pleased with 13th and eager to get back up there this weekend.

  Rating: 8


Title: Best by Far!!!! Date:5/16/2006 4:45:14 PM  
  As a single lady that has been in the lifestyle for 17 years, this is the best place I have been, by far. I have read several of the post before mine, and quite frankly, I don't understand these people and where they are coming from. I speak at many lifestyle events all over the nation. One thing for certain, you can't please them all. Mostly because they aren't pleased with themselves. I know many club owners, and the biggest issue with them all is Single Males. For those couples that have a complaint about single males, you should sit a listen to the phone calls these club owners get from couples. I guarantee you over 75% of the couples that call "HOPE" the club allows single males. The other 25% wish they never existed. How do these clubs balance the mix. It is extremely hard. I have never seen any club work harder at pleasing both sides as the new owners at 13th floor. I personally have heard many of their phone conversations with interested guests, and with the prospective single males. They go into great detail as to what is expected of the single male behaviour. They do their best to make sure the Single Males abide by the rules, but face it folks, once the "Dreaded out of Line Single Male" arrives, they spend the first couple of hours acting like the charming Single Guy, then the rest of their time watching the host, and as soon as they see the host is busy attending the needs of other guests, they make their move. Get real folks. The host are not mind readers, they can't be everywhere at one time. Let them know immediately if you need their assistance. I have seen several Single Men asked to leave this place because they were out of line. I travel often, and love many of the other clubs I attend, but I am always glad to return home and go to the best club, not only in Dallas, but in the Nation. Bruce & Vicky, keep up the outstanding work. There is no way you can please them all, but look at the size of your parties the past few months, you are obviously doing something right. Oh, where did that other couple think the numbers were going down? I sure do not see that at all. I am always FLOORED at how the parties keep getting larger each week. Here's to getting it RIGHT.


Title: 13th Floor Experience Date:4/15/2006 1:18:03 PM  
  Our second visit to the 13th floor was not as enjoyable as our first. The place has so much potential to be an awesome experience for couples. However, their policy of allowing single males into the club (with our without a couple) hinders couple's enjoyment. Our most recent visit had about 10 to 15 single males stalking the women like vultures. They even followed my wife to the restroom! We went to the "semi-private" (no watching) area, and again were followed by the same males...who were conveniently looking in about every two minutes. This is likely our last visit to the 13th floor, unless they change their policy. If I want my wife "Stalked" by men all night, we will go to a regular club, where a $50 donation fee is not charged.


Title: As Fun As U Wanna Be Date:4/14/2006 12:38:39 AM  
  The 13th Floor has music that gets you jumping. The women are sexy and everyone is friendly. There is diversity in people every time I go. It's just plain fun whether I have an encounter or choose not to. No pressure! For a single woman that's important. This place offers- Good People, Good Music, Good Food, and Good Atmosphere. I will keep coming back!!!!


Title: Something New Something Old Date:12/15/2005 11:47:05 AM  
  First time in since the changeover of management. The remodel is nice. I also thought the rule changes involving sitting around in the rooms and drinking were good too if only they were enforced. We would have loved to try out one of the new rooms if people would not have been sitting around and even standing around in the rooms bullshitting and drinking. I like the new hosts, and the place seems cleaner. One tip though, it seems as if there are MORE single men on Saturdays now then there used to be. My wife and I were stalked by several men all night long. I talked to three of these guys and they all said they were there alone, or they had used a couple to get in. I thought the rules were that you had to stay with the couple that brought you. The singles guys ruin it folks, can't you do something about this? All in all, the changes are nice, the old problems of single men and couples loitering in the rooms are not.


Title: The 13th Floor... Date:12/14/2005 6:49:16 PM  
  The 13th Floor...
Under New Attitude...The best on-premise swinger's group in Dallas we have found!...
The hosts are amazing...and offer a very intimate...relaxing setting that allows all the guests to make the evening what they want it to be...There is always many friendly faces...dancing...partying and playing...
Everyone is very respectful and friendly...No head games...No pressure...
Once you will be back...
Reno and msfreakie...

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