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We are a couples-only group who holds monthly socials in a renovated former night club, adjacent to our host hotel. We have a byob policy, providing mixers and bartenders for you. We provide non-alcoholic beverages, as well as food and snacks. We have a hospitality suite complete with hot tub, sauna, and adjoining group room. Special room rates for members attending parties.
We would like to welcome you to Southwest Virginia Social Group
If you are new to the lifestyle, let us take a few moments to tell you a little about
our group. Hopefully, we can give you some useful information that will help
answer any questions you may have about our group or swinging in general.
We are a private group of consenting adults who enjoy meeting people with
shared interests and having a good time together. Although we are a group
for couples, we do not hate singles. We feel that for our group, a couples only
setting is more comfortable and conducive to the environment that we are
trying to enjoy. We provide a relaxed, yet classy atmosphere for our couples
where they can meet other couples with the same or similar interests in a no
pressure, comfortable, yet night-club type atmosphere.
Again, we are a no pressure group and at no time are you obligated to do
anything other than what you are comfortable with. We have our events
arranged so that you can mingle with others but not feel intimidated by some
who are more seasoned. If at any time you feel uncomfortable, please let one
of the identified staff know and we will do what we can to help.
Your hotel accommodations are your responsibility and paid for by you,
although we have arranged a special rate for our members. We encourage
you to stay at our host facility because of the alcohol consumption, so that you
may return safely to your families.
Dress is a matter of preference. We encourage you to dress comfortably.
Some ladies will dress very provocatively while others are not. The usual rule
is "dress to impress" or according to the events theme. Most men dress very
casual. Our major requirements are that all dress must be street legal or that
you wear some type of cover up to go from your room to the event building.
There are to be no sexual acts in the group area. We will have a hospitality
suite in the room section of the hotel. Flirting, teasing, and minor flashing will
be allowed.
You are under no obligation to join in any activities that you are not
comfortable with. We just encourage you to meet other couples and have fun.
If at any time someone does something that you or your mate does not feel
comfortable with, just say no. NO MEANS NO!!!
If the person does not comply with your wishes, please feel free to seek out
one of the identified staff members. We are there solely to make sure that your
visit is one of the most memorable experiences you will remember.
We are often asked about age groups. Our members must be at least 21
years of age. That is the only age requirement. In the same token, we are a
couples group. This does not mean that you must be married, but must be
registered as a couple. Special note: We take very special care to make
sure that our members are able to enjoy themselves in a secure
environment. If you are in a relationship in which your partner does not
participate, please be careful if you are making plans to attend with
someone other than your partner. If we are forced to deal with a jealous
spouse/partner, this could cause problems with our host facility and
local law enforcement. We may impose fines against you and your date,
which may include any legal fees or other fees concurred in this
incident.
We hope that you have found some useful information on this page. If not, use
our contact us page to send any questions that you may have. Our main goal
is for you to meet other couples who you can become friends with in and
outside of the group.
Friendships are the basis of the entire group.
Below are a few questions that we feel some of you may have. These may
also be of some help to you in your choice to join our group:
1) Who comes to SWVASG?
We welcome couples from all over Virginia and surrounding states. We
welcome couples from anywhere who may be visiting the area. The only
requirement is that you are registered as a couple. We look for those who
enjoy a fun, friendly, and erotic atmosphere. Our members come from all
walks of life, but share the same interest in that their lifestyle experience be a
private matter.
2) What type of facilities do we have?
We have a former night club that we have renovated to promote the fun &
friendly, yet classy atmosphere that most seem to enjoy. We have a bar with a
bartender to mix your alcoholic beverages with the mixers that we provide, or
soda or coffee if you prefer the non-alcoholic beverages. We will also provide
snacks and lite foods for you to enjoy. We will have a DJ and large dance
floor. We will have plenty of seating for those who want to gather in large
groups or smaller sections for those who look for a more intimate setting. We
will also have a hospitality suite complete with hot tub and sauna. We would
like to stress that we are a very clean group and will ensure that the premises
will be cleaned and ready for each event.
3) Do we have to swing at these events?
Definitely NOT. There is at no time any pressure to do anything other than
have a good time and make friends with others in the lifestyle. This is why we
have several different areas for those who are new and those who are more
seasoned. We do encourage those of all experiences to mingle with others to
help us maintain the friendships that we all look for. You may at any time enjoy
just being alone as a couple or with a large group. There are no scheduled or
structured swinging activities. Participation is solely a matter of choice.
4) What if I see someone that I know at SWVASG?
This could very well happen as we are trying to create a group for this area for
those of us who usually have to travel to attend an event with another online
club. The main thing to remember is that they are also there for the same
purpose of meeting other couples who are in the lifestyle and can relax and
enjoy the atmosphere. The best way to handle this is to say hello and have a
good laugh and continue to enjoy the event. Who knows who you may become
good friends with outside of the group?
Just remember. We are all there to enjoy the atmosphere and make
friends with others in the lifestyle. The new couples seminar will help
with any anxieties you may have and the staff will be happy to discuss
any issues or answer any questions you may have in private. We are
there to help you enjoy our events so that you will look forward to the
next one.
Your Privacy
We value your privacy as we do our own. To help ensure
your privacy is always protected, we follow these policies in
handling your personal information.
We never provide any information to anyone under any
circumstances.
We do not sell, share, or give any group information to
anyone under any circumstances.
The information you provide to us is kept secure at all
times. Only the group directors have access to this.
Your personal information such as your mailing address,
phone number, and email address are not included in the
information we have at the events. Limited information
such, as your name, is in the check-in books.
We provide security at all group events. No one can enter
our events without passing through the security checks.
We have a great working relationship with our host facilities
who work with us to ensure your privacy.
Our facilities are situated so that your privacy can be
maintained at all times.
All guests at our events must check in at the group
registration. A photo ID must be provided along with our
group membership card to enter our events.
No recording devices or camera phones are allowed in any
of the party areas or in the hospitality suite. This is to
ensure the privacy of all members.
And last but not at all the least. Upon signing the group
membership form and registering for the events, you agree
that you are a member of the group and that you will use
the group, group's website, and participate in the group
events solely for the purpose of your personal pleasure. By
signing, you also agree that you are not a member of the
media and will not use any information found within these
pages or information obtained at the group events for
publication or any other professional use.
You agree that you are not in any manner using any
information in any manner that will harm any of the group's
members or its directors.
YOUR PRIVACY IS THE TOP CONCERN THAT WE TAKE
VERY SERIOUSLY.!!!
Tips
TOP 10 SWINGERS TIPS
Talk to your partner.
Open communication is vital to a healthy swinging lifestyle. We
only recommend swinging to couples who are honest with each
other and are open minded enough to discuss their deepest
fantasies with each other.
Listen to your partner.
Communication before, during, and after are important. Use
predetermined code words, or "looks" to communicate during
any swinging activity. This way you can tell your partner what to
do-or not do, without being shy or embarrassed to say
something.
Keep an open mind.
Those who are open to new ideas are those that will have the
most fun swinging. Don't be afraid to try new things. If you ever
hear someone say they are "try-sexual", what they mean is that
they will try anything at least once.
Ask questions.
Swingers love to meet people. They are the friendliest people
you will ever meet. They will be glad to help you out with your
questions and concerns. Everyone has the same basic
concerns; jealousy, moral issues, fears, diseases, convincing a
partner, etc. People who have experienced these situations can
help you make the important decisions you need to make.
Always be honest.
Don't try to be someone that you are not. The only thing
disheartening is meeting someone only to find out that they are
not as they described themselves. If you place or answer ads,
always talk on the phone a few times before you ever meet in
person.
Use the tub.
You will find that many swingers have hot tubs. Next time you
see a friend or relative with a hot tub...stop and wonder. If you
are at a friends' house or a party, use the hot tub. It is really
easy to feel comfortable being naked in front of others if you are
in the water. It will help you relax too.
Go easy with the alcohol.
This cannot be stressed enough. If you drink, be smart about it.
If you have to be drunk to swing, you shouldn't be in this
lifestyle. Social consumption of alcohol is fine and accepted, but
don't abuse it. No one wants their evening spoiled because of
one person's irresponsibility.
Be prepared.
Everyone is nervous the first few times, and everyone is
jealous-at least to some degree. Being prepared for these
emotions will make dealing with them that much easier. Talking
to others who are experienced is a great way to prepare
yourself.
Do it for you.
If you are thinking of swinging because you want to please your
loved one, but personally are not interested, you're doing it for
the wrong reason. You are going to enjoy it if you are interested
in swinging.
NO MEANS NO.
This is probably the most important rule of all.
If at any time you are uncomfortable, simply say "No, thank
you." This is a rule that is respected by all those who swing.
And if you ever hear someone say "No, thank you", be sure to
respect their wishes. This does not mean that they do not want
to be part of the group with you or to be rude. |
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