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The Party
For those of you who have never attended here's a little more about our group and parties. We have our invitation only socials at a hotel ballroom. Dj, dancing, Cash bar, free midnight buffet, sexy mingling games, and around 80 attractive couples. These parties are a great, safe way to meet people in the lifestyle without all the hassle and disappointments of endless correspondence.
Nothing is expected of you at the party except to have fun and meet some other really nice people in the lifestyle. No one is pushy. If anyone were, we would ask them to leave and they would not be invited back. Most of our members are attractive professional types who are just looking for other like minded couples who want to add a little spice to their already exciting lives. We have personally made a lot of wonderful friends at these functions and are sure that you will too. The average age of the couples is 25-45. Nothing sexual happens during the parties themselves other than a lot of flirting (no nudity or overt sexual activity is allowed). We have different sexy themes and mingling games at each party to encourage everyone to get to know each other. So even if you're a little shy, it will be easy to get acquainted with new friends
The Cost
We hope that you can make our next get-together. The cost of most parties is $50 per couple and we also have membership fees, which start at $10 for a 28 day membership.
Location
We do not give out location online!!
If you would like more information (party location, etc.) and would like to attend a party, email your full names, regular mailing address (or PO Box), and phone number to SouSocial1@aol.com
Newcomers
Newcomer's orientation is at 5:30 pm (required for newcomers). We have a "get acquainted" hospitality gathering from 1-5 pm on Saturday afternoon. We encourage you to drop by for free soft drinks and snacks. This is an opportunity to meet some of the other newcomers as well as some of our regulars. That way you will not walk into a room full of strangers at the party. Many couples will meet in the afternoon and get together for dinner at some of the local restaurants before the party.
What are Southern Socials & Carolina Friends?
Southern Social / Carolina Friends are couples swing clubs. Our clubs are designed to bring together couples interested in making friendships that are deeper, more interesting and, likely, more lasting than outside the lifestyle. Where we can offer a safe, pleasant atmosphere with no obligations or pressures; just a place to meet, talk, dance, and develop whatever level of friendship you want with others. This provides a relaxed situation that is particularly comforting to couples new to the lifestyle. We do not allow or provide areas for sexual intercourse, hotel rooms are available for overnight accommodations. No one is ever required to do anything other than enjoy themselves socially.
How often do you meet?
We have a party every weekend in one of these locations; Augusta GA, Charlotte, NC, Greenville, SC, Myrtle Beach, SC, & Raleigh, NC.
What are the costs ?
The Party fee is $50.
The membership fees start at $10.
( If you attend 6 or more parties a year, membership renewal is free)
How many couples will be at the party?
In Augusta currently we have about 50 to 60 couples at each social.
In Charlotte we have around 200 couples at each hotel party and around 100 couples the Estate every weekend.
What is the age of most of the couples?
Ages vary between 21-60 with the average age being between 25 to 40.
What if I find myself in an uncomfortable situation?
If a couple or a situation make you feel ill-at-ease, perhaps it's time to invoke the rule of "NO Thank You" You should never feel pressured into doing anything you are not comfortable doing. You're here to have fun. Being coerced is NO FUN. So if anyone persists, talk to the host couple or a staff member.
Can we visit the club as nonmembers?
Yes, if you are a current member of another club. If not, memberships may be obtained by filling out a membership application and showing picture ID at your 1st party. If you have attended six or more parties at either/both locations your next year membership is complimentary.
What do you wear to these parties?
We get everything from jeans to suits (and even some formal wear on new years eve), on theme parties most couples dress to match the theme, but dressing to the theme is not required to attend.
Do we have to be a married couple to join Southern Socials?
You'll be welcomed whether you're married, dating, living with your significant other, or going steady. Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago. Marriage is not a condition of belonging. The club is for male/female couples only. You must be of legal age and both of you need to know what the club is all about.
Are our names ever given out?
No! Your name, address and phone number are personal and kept confidential. We never give them out to other members without first getting your permission and we do not sell our mailing lists. EVER!
Is it like going to a big orgy?
NO!! We supply you a place to meet and dance with other couples with similar interest in the lifestyle. No sex or nudity is allowed in the club ballroom.
What does the term "Lifestyle" mean?
"Lifestyle" is the politically correct term for swapping of partners for sexual pleasure also called "swinging".
Can we be up front about our sexual desires?
Yes by all means be up-front. It is essential that everyone know up-front what they are getting into. You could save everyone from a potentially embarrassing situation later on. If you are bisexual, and it is important that your partner also be bisexual, make sure your new found friends are too. Also find out about everyone's limits.
Are we expected to do anything?
No!! The only thing you have to do is pay your party fee,
attend the New Couples Seminar and have a great time.
What is the New Couples Seminar?
A seminar that is mandatory for all new couples. It's an informal way to learn about the lifestyle, Club Rules, and that evening's events
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