Club R.U.B. is a regular monthly fetish club. It's held in the City of London on a Saturday night from 10.30pm until 5am. Email Kim at the address below for the location. Strict fetish dress code applies. Many of the events have a theme, whilst this is optional it's great fun to join in!
Kims kinky tip 1
You know when you go in a posh dress shop and they give you a large cardboard bag with rope handles. Those handles are long enough for cock & ball torture and other similar uses.
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S/M toys on a shoe string! Tip No. 2: This may take a little hunting for the correct type of ball (let me know if you find one!). The ball is a little larger than a Golf ball, plastic, hollow and has small holes all over. This ball is ideal as a gag. Simply thread one of those rope handles or leather thong through the holes for a quick and cheap gag. Also foam rubber balls can be carefully drilled. Go to a pet shop for a large selection of small balls!
Kims kinky tip 3
Ever gone fishing for SM stuff in a fishing tackle shop?Whilst in France last year I bought loads of fishing weights and other stuff for SM use. I found some great fishing line bells that clip onto the line and ring when youve got a bite. Great for nipple torture especially at Christmas. Also weights are great for adding a bit of tension to cock and ball torture.So use your imagination and go fishing .
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How longs a piece of rope?
First of all, what do you need it to do? Just the cock and balls or the whole body? Yacht Chandlers, in particular Arthur Beale. 194 Shaftesbury Ave, WC2H 020 7836 5807 have the most amazing selection of rope and clips. White, soft and smooth Magicians rope is only .28p a meter - ideal for CBT. If your suspending someone and there is an element of weight involved the Bungee rope is advisable @ .68p a meter. They have a lovely shiny black polypropylene rope for .65p a meter. Want something different? Fishing net can be bought by the meter for 1.65. Get out of that!
Kims kinky tip 5
Youve heard of a Bed of Nails! Well, what about a bed of nettles. Also gather a large bunch and swipe liberally across the buttocks, followed by any other part of the body you wish. You will be surprised!
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The pleasures of Deepheat or other similarly named products will keep you warm on cold winter nights. If you want to be safe apply to a test area before slapping it straight on to the testicles or fanny! It will certainly hot things up!
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A clingfilm dispenser about half the size of a kitchen roll and on a handle for easy dispensing around the body. Dont ask me where you get them from. Ive got one and thats all I know! Probably a packaging company.
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Where to get the clingfilm dispenser is covered in Letters. Licorice bootlace is an excellent way to tie open the vagina, tie up the cock & ball or around the tits. Then get the dog! No! Just kidding! However, it could be eaten off by one or more people!!!
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Medical apparatus suppliers sell some really interesting items! For example pin wheels are under 5, disposable proctorscopes and speculums are cheap and enema bags are approximately 15. There are suppliers on and around Wigmore Street, London W1.
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Lets go for the obvious! Clothes pegs come in wood, plastic, metal etc. Or tiny ones for Christmas cards, they can be found in bright colours and in a variety of designs. Some pegs have a handy little hole at the end. Thread string through these holes then place the pegs in a line along the body (anywhere you like or were there is enough skin) then pull the string either quickly or slowly. Perhaps spiral the pegs down the body then get the lucky recipient to spin around.
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A ready-to-travel disciplinary aid! Get a bottle of liquid soap and a babys dummy and just let that slave of yours step out of line again!
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If you are into playing messy games but do not want to go to the expense of buying sheet rubber then why not try a shower curtain. IKEA has a selection of colours and only 3 - and all that stuff is easily showered off!
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Heres anew one for you - sensory deprivation - using ear plugs and a pair of tights! The plugs can be bought from any Chemist. Place them in the ears. Then take a pair of tights, cut off the legs, use the panty section as a gag (stuff them all in the mouth), use one leg as a blindfold and the other as a hood.
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You know those camping beds that fold-up into a post shape (they do stools, shooting sticks and chairs too!)? Usually in green canvas! Well - I thought it would make a great bondage bed. Ankle and wrist cuffs can be clipped to the spokes and rope moves easily under the structure. It is conveniently stored and great for SM play whilst camping.
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Interested in formulating a BDSM session whether it is private or professional? Get a card index box. Read everything you can get your hands on fact or fiction. Transfer your thoughts onto the alphabetical cards and duplicate were appropriate, eg - G for stocking used as a gag or B for blindfold. Just before or during the session whip a card out when you get stuck or need to elaborate.
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Decorators perforator (saw it on Changing Rooms!) which is a roller with spikes. Also a fly swat!
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Here is a little inexpensive game. Get seven dice. Place one by the side of six instruments of torture. For example paddle, tawse, flat-tailed flogger, crop, cane and to add a little bit of interest make the last one a bowl of ice! With the seventh dice role their fate. Then using the dice by the implement roll the number of times to be implemented. Ice could be number of seconds its in place!
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You can buy these funny little weights with a clips on the end of a bit of wire that you attach a photo to - do you know what I mean? - you try describing it!!! Anyway great for nipples.
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This tip has come from Dave at www.playpenz.co. uk. Trouser-clip coat-hangers are great from nipple torture. You can buy them as singles clips also.
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A gag can be made out of a condom by filling it with what ever liquid you like, and by making it as full
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Broom handle used as leg spreaders. Cut to the desired width. Eyelet screw at each end and one on the middle - easy.
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A Spring Balance for weighing fish can be purchased from a fishing tackle
shop. Tie up the balls and/or cock. Attach weighing device and increase the
weight every session.
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A jock strap filled with any of the following items will make for an
interesting time for the wearer. Wire wool, nettles, small tacks pushed
through the fabric then taped at the back so they dont fall out!
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This one will involve a little woodwork - but its easy! To make a bondage
post get a piece of 4x4 wood to the height of your slave. Drill doweling
size holes eight inches apart (as many as you like). Cut doweling into 18
inch sections and slot into holes. Make stabilisers for the post. Rope can
be wound around the doweling and your slave will be secured.
Kims kinky tip 25
Lippy slaves should instantly receive your freshly removed knickers in their
mouth. That will shut him (or her) up!
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Velcro strips, thick or thin, can be wrapped around the cock which if it
responds the rough side will painfully dig in. So quick and easy to use and
will easily fit any size penis. Tip by Lucy B.
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A zipper is a series of clamps/pegs threaded together on cord, allowing them
to be placed on fleshy parts of the body and torn off with a single pull.
The best way to find out what a zipper is? Experiment and try one.
Kims kinky tip 28
Most folks have seen the film Nine and a Half Weeks where they are feeding
each other sat in front of the fridge. Sensations should not only be kept to
oral but experienced by the whole body. Try ice cubes in lots of areas
(especially after a good spanking), feathers and fur all over the body.
Tiger Balm (& Deep Heat) on the genitals is an interesting sensation! Wax
strips are surprising. Why not wax the buttocks first, then put an ice cube
in the mouth and kiss it better!
Kims kinky tip 29
I was at dinner at a friends the other night and he had some serving tongs
that had a sliding grip on them (so you can get a tight grip on your
sausages!) Ideal, I thought, for CBT (cock & ball torture)!
Kims kinky tip 30
I was at dinner at a friends the other night and he had some serving tongs
that had a sliding grip on them (so you can get a tight grip on your
sausages!) Ideal, I thought, for CBT (cock & ball torture)!
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Electric toothbrush - need I say more!
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Exfoliating gloves used with tiger balm or deep heat or massage oil or ice
cubes inside or perhaps you could think of something else!
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You can buy really, really large black refuse sacks from janitor/cleaning supplies shops. They are so big it's easy to put someone inside and fasten the top off. Just remember to give them a breathing tube and a pre-agreed gesture should they get distressed.
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My friend Paul bought a vaulting horse from Ikea (80 in childrens dept of
all places) and now uses it as a spanking bench. It has very handy draw to
keep whips etc out of sight. A simple lock keeps them safe.
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Anyone heard of Space Dust? Childrens snap, crackle and pop sweets? Great sensation for oral sex!
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Vemon lip gloss is available from all good department stores. The active
ingredients are ginger and cloves - great for all oral adventures!
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Burlesque is all the rage at the moment, so why not buy yourself or your
partner some nipple tassels and get twirling!
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Hot wax! Its fire - treat with respect. Drip almost anywhere on the body.
From a great hight is cooler. If hairy treat to a massage first as the wax
comes off easier. Remember hot feet trample wax into carpet. Beware!
Kim's kinky tip 39
So you want to be a Domme (or a Master)? You've got the books and have a slave but really you want to SEE how it's done. Easy. Make yourself a member of a really good FEM/DOM site like www.theenglishdungeon.com as there are dozens of videos with everything from CP to electrics.
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